“‘Steak and Blowjob Day’? Really? In our house we call that ‘Saturday.’”

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Jennifer says the real problem comes when you let Cosmo, GQ, or your society tell you what love and romance are.

“I was dropping my son off at the bus stop. The crying was sudden and brief, but no mystery.”

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When was the last time you cried? Whether it was tearing up at something you didn’t expect to affect you, or a long, hard cry at a deep loss, or something in between, we want to hear your stories.

“A long list of dealbreakers means you aren’t really looking for an actual human being to date.”

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wellokaythen says that if your list of dealbreakers has more than a few items on it, you probably have unrealistic expectations.

Dear John: Why Doesn’t He Know I’m “The One”?

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This week Dear John talks about “the one”, Facebook friends after divorce, and sales-y friends.

“A ‘head of the household’ belongs in a world where wives and children are property.”

This is a comment by Lars Fisher on the post “It Doesn’t Matter Who Wears the Pants: A Response to Hannah Rosin and The New York Times”.

Dear John: “Guys Weekend” Had More Girls, Fewer Clothes

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This week Dear John addresses a skinny-dipping party, concern for an alienated friend, and cosmetic surgery.

Dear John: There’s No Pleasing Her

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Dear John addresses a boring sex life, the “friend zone”, and when to tell your friend about their significant other’s infidelity.

29 Play Dates to Spice Up Your Relationships

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Arcades, board games, picnics, oh my!

“I was watching my wife bleed out, wondering if I would be raising this tiny person on my own.”

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This is a comment by Adam on the post “Why Men Have Trouble with Initmacy”.

“I once shared your view of men wanting sex and women wanting love. I later found it’s not quite true.”

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This is a comment by The Wet One on the post “It’s Okay to Want Sex”.

“Guilt and shame are seriously like bad cologne or a fart in an elevator.”

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This is a comment by Hot-tall-intelligent-mature-HWP-blonde-blue-eyed-woman on the post “Can’t Get Laid”.

“Guys turn off porn because you can’t hold a video after you’re done.”

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These are comments by pwlsax and Mark Greene on the post “Why I Hate Porn: One Man’s View”.

“The problem nice guys have is they put women on pedestals and themselves in a pit.”

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This is a comment by Jay on the post “Can A ‘Nice Guy’ Ever Beat the ‘Bad Boy’?”

“I say it’s time for women to make more of an effort, especially in marriage, to keep romance alive.”

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This is a comment by Jon D on the post “It’s True That Men Have to Fall Harder For Women Than They Fall For Us”.