The Problem with Slut-Shaming

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Women aren’t the only people who are slut-shamed, as Stephen S. Mills found out when he went for a routine (and responsible) health screening.

Date Whoever the Hell You Want

Put aside the checklist and focus on the person.

Ketan Anjaria has decided to toss the dating checklists, and suggests you do the same.

Beyond Being a White Knight: 8 Ways Men Can Be Allies to Women At Parties

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Jamie Utt offers tips for guys on how to help keep their friends safe and comfortable in the middle of party culture.

Be The Greatest Lover She’s Ever Known

“No, that was totally real, I swear.”

Doctor NerdLove explains that in order to be the best lover possible, you’ll have to unlearn what you think you know about how to be great in bed.

Slut-Shaming is Against the Guy Code

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Wilkine Brutus on the recent K-Pop scandal and the need to end slut-shaming.

A Better Model of Male Sexuality in the World of Gay Pride

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Gay Pride as a model of straight male sexual freedom.

Twelve Words I Never Want To See Again

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These words completely poison online discourse, and destroy the credibility of the person using them. Cut it out.

How Does a Caring Father Respond When a TSA Agent Tells His Daughter to ‘Cover Up’?

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Hugo Schwyzer believes we can all learn something from Mark Frauenfelder, who stood up for his daughter after being shamed for what she was wearing.

3 Ways to Help Create a Society Supportive of Survivors

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3 actions we can take to support survivors, including an historic Monument Quilt honoring the stories of Americans who have survived sexual assault.

Only ‘Yes’ Means Yes: Sometimes What You Think is Consensual Sex is Actually Rape

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Shannon Ridgway and Sandra Kim offer a clear guide to understanding and obtaining consent from your partner.

Everyone Gets Judged For Their Sex Lives! Equality!

TweetAn interesting recent study has shown that three-quarters of college students judge men and women’s sex lives with complete equality. The breakdown is as follows: 48% egalitarian conservatives who lose equal respect for men and women they believe are “sleeping around.” 27% egalitarian libertarians who don’t lose respect for people for sleeping around. 12% traditional […]

“The subtext: men are sex-crazed maniacs and women aren’t supposed to like sex.”

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This is a comment by Sarah on the post “The Truth about Porn and Relationships”.

Fox News: Be Abstinent Until Marriage, Mimbos.

TweetSteven Crowder apparently waited until he got married to have sex, and would like to tell us all about it. In general, I am happy for Mr. Crowder. He waited until he got married to have sex and had a very enjoyable loss of his virginity. I’m glad! I think everyone should have the right […]

Noble Hierarch is Not a Slut

TweetAs big nerds, Charles and I like to do nerdy things. Recently, we’ve managed to infiltrate a dear college friend’s weekly Magic: The Gathering club. This is super good news! I’m the only woman, but I’ve come to expect that. We have a lot of fun, though, so the strangenesses are pretty much excusable. There’s just one […]

“People don’t raise the topic of casual sex for fear of embarrassment or offending.”

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This is a comment by Notavi on the post “Can’t Get Laid”.

My Girlfriend Has Had Too Many Partners

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A man asks Eli and Josie how to deal with the fact that his girlfriend has had one-night stands and too many partners in the past.