The Sophisticate

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Kile Ozier was encouraged to cultivate a taste for alcohol at home. Without the pressures of a political life in the closet and a killer epidemic, it might not have become a problem … .

In Utero

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For Drew Diaz, trouble with alcohol began early.

A Child of Alcoholics Finds Serenity

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Aaron Brinker changes a family tradition of silence around alcohol abuse, by telling the story of how he also became an alcoholic.

5 Techniques to Avoid Cravings after Drug Rehab

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After recognizing cravings and their triggers, learn to alleviate the discomfort.

Unfinished Symphony: A Memoir Excerpt

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A daughter recalls her father’s ragged oaths, then the gentle, intelligent voice letters penned from the other side of the world.

Meet a Bladesmith Whose Last Name Is Shanks … For Real

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Forging could be considered the second oldest profession in the world, but for outlaw biker Terry Shanks forging has become a spiritual discipline.

Attempting to Make Christmas Not Suck This Year

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No amount of repenting and stretching and bitching is going to change anything. We are already all right.

Fathering to Heal

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There is no way I can understand who I am as a father without understanding who I am as a son.

What I Learned from 9 Weeks of Sobriety

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Why Mike Nicholson took a self-imposed hiatus from drinking, how his friends responded, and what he learned from the experience.

Laugh at the Punch

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After four years sober, cracks begin to appear in Erik Christian’s façade of normalcy.

How Erik Got His Groove Back

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White-knuckling his way through sobriety was burning him out, until Erik Christian returned to his youthful creative passions.

Tell Your Story: What Have You Overcome?

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Strength in Story is looking for men’s stories of adversity and recovery.

Your Ideal Day

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Nick Florest concludes his series on addiction with a question: What does your ideal day look like?

But How Am I Supposed to Be with Her Sober?

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The first time Dan Griffin asks a woman out in recovery, the intensity of the experience is overwhelming.

Confessions of a [Former] Addict

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What does it feel like to become an addict?

Addiction: 9/1

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Guest editor Nick Florest wants your stories of addiction.