The Beauty in Being Alone

There is a beauty in solitude. Sometimes we just have to remember to disconnect.

How to Make a Fresh Start After a Bad Breakup

Breakup expert Matt Shumate has 4 awesome tips for moving on after you’ve split up.

Can Heartbreak Be Healthy?

Endings expert Matt Shumate believes multiple breakups are the best thing that ever happened to him.

Can Single Guys Be Happy?

Whether you’re post-breakup or just pre-relationship, Matt Shumate wants you to know the benefits of being by yourself for a while.

How to Break Your Own Heart

We all know heartbreak. Liz Furl writes about the kind we unleash on ourselves.

Keeping Your Head Above Water: Solitude

A Romanian social activist recommends giving yourself solitude to protect your strength and values.

Why I’m Not Looking for Love

Cabot O’Callaghan is open to love—he’s just not chasing it. And that makes him happy. ___ Well, those who speak know nothin’ And find out to their cost Like those who curse their luck in too many places And those who fear are lost —Sting, Shape Of My Heart ___ I’m in a good space […]

Tackling the Masculine Soul in a Duel Between Loneliness and Solitude

Debating which one is worse might be a losing argument, yet it is worth having a conversation.

I Shovel Snow to Support My Habit

Brian Whitney is a recovering addict who loves to write. He shovels snow to pay the bills.

5 Ways to Savor your Singlehood

Dillan DiGiovanni shares good advice to truly savor your singlehood.

10 Things People Who Love Being Alone Never Worry About

I’m a recluse as much as the next guy… At least, that’s what I thought.

Gone Fishing Through Early Doors

What happens when a solitary man is gone fishing through the doors of awareness?

A Troll’s Quest: On Holly Fisher and Other Remoras

In just a few days Holly Fisher has gained 23,000 Twitter followers, been featured in nearly every “news” source and has became, at once, an overnight darling and an overnight joke. But how did she do it?

How a Chainsaw Made Me a Better Man

Awarding “Man Points” for stereotypically masculine actions is misleading and can be damaging. But I love how that chainsaw helped me grow.

A Teen Guy Asks, “When Will I Feel Love?”

Noel Lobo wants someone to connect with him, understand him and care for him.

Learning To Be Alone Again

After ten years of marriage, Nathan Graziano is finding being alone a different challenge from his old single days.