14 Marital Tips on Our 14th Anniversary

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If you are lucky (and you work your ass off) your marriage could last for a very long time. With that thought looming over your head, it’s good to have some guidelines as you attempt to live with the same person for years on end.

10 Pro-Tips For Keeping Your Marriage Happy, In Spite Of In-Laws

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Heather Gray doesn’t think your marriage has to resemble a sitcom scene. You all really can just get along.

Five Ways to a Failed Marriage

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Dad Under Fire is learning the hard way how easy it is to lose a marriage. He wants you to learn from his mistakes.

The Dead Zone: On Relationships That Drag On

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Carlette Norwood shares some advice for those times when you feel locked in an unfulfilling relationship.

Long Live Rock: A Dad, on Being the Front Man to a Much Smaller Band

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Andy Koehn never made it as a rock star. And that’s a really really good thing.

Deciding What To Do With Your Marriage?

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Why Do We Believe the Solution to an Unhappy Marriageis to Fix or Replace our Spouse?

“My marriage didn’t survive after hitting rock bottom. It wasn’t about getting rid of her, it was about figuring out what parts of me lead to her departure.”

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These are comments by Steve Horsmon, Rachel @ Reality Chick, and wellokaythen on the post “If You Think Your Marriage Is Over, Give It One More Year”.

“Helicopter parenting breeds resentment between couples. If we ONLY focus on being parents we should just find genetically compatible spouses and mate.”

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These are comments by Trudi and Nate Graiano on the post “It Can’t Be All About The Kids”.

The Dangers of Christian “Marriage Worship”

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You can be married and use someone. You can devalue and denigrate someone without ever touching them.

Dear John: An Affair To Forget

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A late discovery of an affair, a thankless favor, and a second breakup from wanting to get back with their ex.

Slam Poetry: How Falling in Love is like Owning a Dog

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You might be surprised by the similarities, but not in the way you might expect.

“I’m happy I have a wife, and having two people both contributing across the board goes a long way.”

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This is a comment by Lars Fisher on the post “I’d Benefit From a Traditional Wife”.

27 Books Your Mom Will Love This Mother’s Day

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Want to snag a great read for your mom or wife this weekend? Check out our list.

“I WILL change my masculine frame for ME because it is who I want to be.”

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This is a comment by Steve Horsmon on the post “How Do Men Think About Sex?”

Dear John: Should She Leave Her Son With Her Boyfriend?

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Questions about her babysitting choices, a boyfriend with an atrocious apartment, and a step-father selling off the mother’s prized possessions after her death.

“The thing about infidelity is that sometimes the affair feels ‘truer’ to the cheater than the marriage.”

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This is a comment by wellokaythen on the post “Why Do We Live With Lies in Marriage?”