Damaged From Combat, Burdened With Insight

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One psychiatrist argues that soldiers suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder may be the unsung champions of strength in gender identity.

Healing Is Not for Wimps

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Sometimes pain and grief are necessary agents of growth in our lives.

Taking a Mancation

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‘Men can talk about their lives in meaningful ways with other men. They just need the time and space to do it.’

Be a Better Dad

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Expectations of fathers have never been higher. Chen Oren counsels guys on how to handle those expectations and be the best dad they can be.

Self-Confidence Is an Inside Job

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Many men lack self-confidence and are busy upholding that facade to friends, coworkers, or partners.

The Psychology of Erectile Dysfunction

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For 25 percent of men with ED, medication can be ineffective—since their difficulties are largely psychological. To avoid performance anxiety, men and their partners should reframe their ideas of good sex.

Do Gay Men Fear Intimacy?

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Does “sexual minority stress” cause gay men to fear emotional commitment and pursue open relationships?

The Benefits of Sharing Emotions

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Guys tend not to share their feelings, even with close friends. As a result, we miss out on the mental and physical health benefits that come with expressing emotion.

Are Men Natural-Born Cheaters?

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Men are more promiscuous than women, but that doesn’t mean we should buy the cultural fallacy that men are programmed to cheat. The vast majority of men are happily, naturally monogamous.

What Your Marriage Needs to Survive

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Even stellar relationships lose their spark over time. Here are the ingredients of a lasting, fruitful partnership, and techniques for weathering the stormy periods.

Who’s Responsible for Violence?

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Should non-violent men take responsibility for other men’s violence? Debate rages on.

Blaming the Blameless: SPSMM Responds

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As SPSMM’s editor for contributions to the Good Men Project Magazine, I’d like to respond to some points made by Mr. Paul Elam (“Men and Violence: Blaming the Blameless“) in response to an article written by Chris Kilmartin, Ph.D., (“Violence Is a Men’s Issue“). Elam notes that Kilmartin did not explicitly reference any research in [...]

Violence Is a Men’s Issue

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The majority of men aren’t violent, but violence is a men’s issue, and all of us have a stake in reducing it.

Are You Man Enough?

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Why do men feel the need to prove their masculinity?