The Marshmallow Test: Hold Two Opposing Thoughts in Your Mind at the Same Time

Are you filled with hope, confidence and an optimistic vision of the future? Inside the Conversation at The Good Men Project.

Dear Dads: Stop Correlating Gothic To Depressed

Despite its nuance, the report confirms a stereotype of Goths as depressed loners that, when taken out of context, can become pernicious or harmful. While the authors encourage care for young people’s mental health, media presentations of this stereotype often encourage prejudice that may result in bullying or violence.

Straight Guys Answer “Gay” Questions

There’s a laundry list of questions that seem to be part of almost every LGBT experience. What if we changed them just a little?

People Started Referring to Me as a Monster: A Gay Man’s Struggle With Alcohol

It took some hard lessons for Alexander to realize that he didn’t have to keep living his life by other people’s standards.

In My Office, In the Closet

Out on the job? There may be more at stake than a paycheck when trying to answer this question.

What Nobody Wants To Admit About Rape Culture

Nobody’s in favor of rape, but it keeps on happening. What’s not working?

I Tick Every Macho Box. How Could I Be Gay?

A rugby player found himself confronting more than one stereotype in his own mind as he struggles with coming out.

The Difference Between Mothering, Fathering, and Parenting

In an effort to define the difference between mothering and fathering, Darrell Milton explores gender roles and their impact on parenting.

7 Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Being a Man: Dyllon Charron

Looking back now, I wish I had a “Guide to Manhood” that told me how hard being a man was…

I Identify As a Hot Gay Male, and You Need to Respect My Choice

He became a Hot Gay Male and remains a Hot Gay Male, no matter what anyone else says. And everyone has an opinion.

Peeling Back the Labels: My Newfound View of Men

What makes a good man? Yasmina Blackburn reflects on how perspectives can shape the views about men.

31 Reasons to Become a Premium Member of The Good Men Project (Plus 5 Extra Bonuses)

Why what we are doing here is so important.

Be a Man. Get Some Muscle.

“Men are gay because they like men. You should think about putting on a little muscle next time.”

Confessions of a Fighter: When Life is Defined by Negativity

Has your life always been a fight? Erin Kelly has learned from good men to roll with the punches now more than ever.

Comics For Anyone Struggling To Explain What It Means To Be Queer

We may be growing in visibility, but it doesn’t mean we don’t sometimes feel alone.

We Eat Stereotypes For Lunch Around Here

Become a Premium Member of The Good Men Project. No ads. A free book. And a lot of broken stereotypes about men.