When Homophobia Tries Hugs Over Hate

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In this response video people stop being afraid long enough to be something more. Embraced.

Cisgenderfluid – Defining a Flexible CIS Gender


Charlie Glickman asks, “How do I describe myself when I’m simultaneously a cisgender man and gender fluid?”

20 Strangers Kiss for the First Time

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Who knew strangers kissing could be so romantic.

“We humans are attracted to the person, not the sexual identity”

Kinsey Scale

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It Turns Out My Partner Is a Woman. So What Does That Make Me?

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Jason Rozek never imagined he’d be asking himself this relationship question.

Can The Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine Dance Together Without Stepping On Each Other’s Toes?


Edie Weinstein wonders if after 15 years of flying solo, with a few luscious layovers and perilous crash landings, can she truly allow herself to surrender and be protected by someone who possesses a more masculine persona?

Tell It to Me “Straight”


Mitch Helix wonders why “feminine” behaviors seem to make people think a man is gay.

About Those Expectations: 10 Questions About Gender

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JJ Vincent asked a 50-year-old about gender, identity, self-expression, and what defines a man.

Let’s Talk About the B: Bisexuality

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JJ Vincent found two men’s takes on bisexuality, the other love that dare not speak its name.

Commitments, Challenges, Character: 10 Questions About Gender

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JJ Vincent asked a 52-year-old about gender, identity, self-expression, and what defines a man.

Bye-bye Binary

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Dr. Aqualus Gordon believes straight men who find themselves attracted to other men should require no explanation and should definitely not be seen as pathological.

Bisexuality: For Lack Of A Better Word


James Patrik’s journey through bisexuality and other labels.

“My ex-wife knew, on some level, that I was gay, at the time we got married. We both were in such denial.”


This is a comment by on the post “Coming Out To Your Wife”.

Public Bathroom Policies Change in Philly: Gender-Neutral Restrooms Now Required

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The City of Brotherly Love just became friendlier to the LGBTQ community with a law that requires gender-neutral restrooms in new and renovated buildings as well as other reforms.

“When I tell people I’m bisexual, everyone seems to think ‘Oh he’s gay, just not totally comfortable with it yet.’ It’s infuriating.”


These are comments by Doug and Jack on the post “How Not to Be a Jerk to Your Bisexual Friend”.

“Marriage as a tradition does not belong to *them* – it belongs to an *us* that includes me. “


This comment was by Tobias, on the post Same-Sex Marriage is Not Enough.