Human First, Dom Second

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What does it mean that the popular image of the male dominant is a paragon of sadistic power?

“Too many people use BDSM as a license to abuse. They’re not dominants, they’re abusers.”

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This is a comment by I.G. Fredricks on the post “Why I Don’t Believe in the Domme Deficit”.

Friday Good Men Project Edition – Ten things I've learned about business from purchasing a 6 inch sub from Itza Submarine

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