Masculinity And Extremism—A Call For Submissions


As our world globalizes, clashes, and reinvents itself, we have the opportunity to guide the way that boys become men. It may mean the difference between continued prosperity or a trip back to the Dark Ages.

Charlie Hebdo & The Danger of Comedy

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Eric Shapiro notes that the terrorist attack on French satirical magazine Charlie Hebdo reinforces the idea that if comedy is to be of any value, then it must be dangerous.

Fifty Shades 2.0 – Time to Upgrade Your Kink Sexuality Knowledge Base


Fetish Sex Expert Galen Fous offers 4 critical guidelines to know before you explore erotic dominance and submission.

Rejected by…


The New Yorker’s loss is The Good Men Project’s gain! Send us your rejected poems!

Sex and Control – How I Experienced My Dark Energy

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Graham Phoenix gets goosebumps just thinking about sex. It’s so important to get it right, because so much flows from the balance between sex and control.

Who Wears the Pants in the Family?

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Are the men who “wear the pants in the family” really just wearing the emperor’s new clothes?

Call for Poetry Submissions


We are ready to read your poems!

Can We Stop With the “Happy Wife Happy Life?”

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Lady Chatterley writes of her frustration with the expression “happy wife happy life” and of the importance of being able to discuss marriage from all angles.

The Problem with Dominance, Submission, and Public Shaming in Airport Security Lines

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The TSA demands a certain level of compliance for security reasons, but what happens when they abuse their authority?

Hyperarousal: Beyond Fight or Flight

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In a crisis, your choices are limited, but it’s not as bad as you think.

21 Step Guide to the Art of Masculine Domination


Skillful dominance requires confidence and sensitivity. Are you bringing it, every step of the way?

Shame Is Why We Fight


When a man can’t soothe his woman’s anxieties, he has failed to protect her. And in our culture of masculinity, failed men are expendable.

Diary of a Submissive Man at NY Magazine


What does a magazine article about a sexually submissive man tell us about gender roles?

“50 Shades of Grey,” “Fight Club,” and the Complications of Male Dominance


Clarisse Thorn sees nothing new in eroticized images of male dominance and violence, but she sees plenty that’s thought-provoking.