Fifty Shades 2.0 – Time to Upgrade Your Kink Sexuality Knowledge Base

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Fetish Sex Expert Galen Fous offers 4 critical guidelines to know before you explore erotic dominance and submission.

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The New Yorker’s loss is The Good Men Project’s gain! Send us your rejected poems!

Sex and Control – How I Experienced My Dark Energy

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Graham Phoenix gets goosebumps just thinking about sex. It’s so important to get it right, because so much flows from the balance between sex and control.

Who Wears the Pants in the Family?

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Are the men who “wear the pants in the family” really just wearing the emperor’s new clothes?

Call for Poetry Submissions

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Can We Stop With the “Happy Wife Happy Life?”

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Lady Chatterley writes of her frustration with the expression “happy wife happy life” and of the importance of being able to discuss marriage from all angles.

The Problem with Dominance, Submission, and Public Shaming in Airport Security Lines

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The TSA demands a certain level of compliance for security reasons, but what happens when they abuse their authority?

Hyperarousal: Beyond Fight or Flight

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In a crisis, your choices are limited, but it’s not as bad as you think.

21 Step Guide to the Art of Masculine Domination

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Skillful dominance requires confidence and sensitivity. Are you bringing it, every step of the way?

Shame Is Why We Fight

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When a man can’t soothe his woman’s anxieties, he has failed to protect her. And in our culture of masculinity, failed men are expendable.

Is BDSM Just a Phase?

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A dominant man’s sexuality matures and evolves with experience.

Diary of a Submissive Man at NY Magazine

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What does a magazine article about a sexually submissive man tell us about gender roles?

“50 Shades of Grey,” “Fight Club,” and the Complications of Male Dominance

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Clarisse Thorn sees nothing new in eroticized images of male dominance and violence, but she sees plenty that’s thought-provoking.