Buckle Up: BDSM, Blackmail and Game Theory

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John Edale explains how to get what you want, by limiting your own options.

The Strength of Submission

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At first, John Edale worried about sharing this private aspect of his life in a blog, but has found that coming out as submissive has unexpected benefits.

Human First, Dom Second

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What does it mean that the popular image of the male dominant is a paragon of sadistic power?