Who Is Greater?

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What makes someone like Dzhokhar Tsarnaev vulnerable to radicalization? A Muslim American parent of two young men asks a question that strikes close to home.

Big Man on Campus

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A fragile boy with learning disabilities transitions from home school to college.

How Teens Drink

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Before the energy drink slash cocktail and butt-chugging, there was “The Watermelon Crawl” and “Mr. Boston’s.”

Coup d’État

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A missionary growing his first chin hairs comes face to face with revolutionary soldiers in the Dominican Republic.

Hair Down There

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A sign that a boy is becoming a man is commemorated by his family.

First Crush

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When Andy Bodle’s first feelings of love were not returned in kind, he succumbed to desperation.

Remembering Sensei

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Who owns the memory of a great man?

Puberty: 3/16

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Like puberty isn’t bad enough, but some people have to go and write about it.

The Function of Adrenalin in Boys’ Rites of Passage

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The young generation can be a threat to the status quo, or an energy source that needs direction, depending on how we meet the challenge.

Batter Up

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My girlfriend’s 15 year old kid had played a year of Little League and hadn’t picked up a bat or glove since. This was an opportunity for us to bond, but the odds were stacked against us.

Urinals, Graffiti, and Boys Being Seen

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Being invisible in a high price to pay for being a teenage boy.

Life Is a Lesson, Not a Test

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Here’s to the girl who made me the man I am today.

Boys in the Friend Zone

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How can we mentor boys in dating and relationship skills?

Your Wedding, Your Life

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The greatest threat to marital peace is a set of unrealistic expectations, demands which may reach an early climax in the wedding ceremony.

A Cloak, a Scythe, and Sweet Halloween Revenge

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After a viewing of Children of the Corn, Joanna Schroeder and her dad hatch a plan to scare the living shit out of her older brother and his friends in true Halloween fashion.

Crush

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Nothing says “sorry” like a fist.