The One: 10 Traits Your Ideal Soul Mate Should Have


Self explanatory title. Ten things that ‘The One’ should have, according to a bright young writer.

There’s A Difference Between Someone Perfect And Someone Perfect For You


Why you should fall in love with someone who’s as awkward, flawed, and quirky as you are.

Why Finding ‘The One’ Is Nearly Impossible But We Do It Anyway


A young writer tackles the concept of finding ‘The One’.

All Your Beautiful Names (Poem)


Jacob Max Winkler Asks God for a Math Lesson

Dating 201: The Right Mindset For Success

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So you’ve gotten better at dating, but you can’t seem to meet “the one”… Maybe you’re focusing too much on improving the outward details of your dating, and not enough on the inward ones.

The Friend Zone (or, How “Jerks” Are Made)


Carlo Alcos wonders why guys think entering the friend zone is a failure.

How Do You Know When It’s Love?


Doctor NerdLove explores the reasons why so many guys get confused about what it means to be in love.

“I should’ve given her my heart right then. But I didn’t. I was still fixed on her needing to have that zing.”


This is a comment by Booster Blake on the post “Don’t Let This One Go”.

Ten Signs She Is The One

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Somebody who cares for you wants to you succeed…even if it means tough love.

Dear John: Why Doesn’t He Know I’m “The One”?


This week Dear John talks about “the one”, Facebook friends after divorce, and sales-y friends.

“I knew my wife was the one the first time she showed me that she had my back.”


These are comments by Bruce and Paul Kidwell on the post “She’s the One”.

Helen Gurley Brown’s Secrets to a Successful Marriage


Keep your partnership or marriage strong with these five tips.

Rashida Jones Shares Her Thoughts on Love


The star of The Office and Parks and Rec speaks about why finding “the one” is depressing, equality in relationships, and about letting go.

“Don’t be a sucker, guys. Dinner is only for people you know you want to spend $100+ and 2 hours on.”


These are comments by EPID and Soullite on the post “Ten Signs She Might Not Be ‘The One’”.

Ten Signs She Might Not Be “The One”

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If you are always worried that she will be socially inappropriate or that she will act out, then you need to get out. You need to be sure that she won’t start yelling in an art gallery or telling dead baby jokes to your mother.

Why Don’t Men Settle Down?

Hugo Why Don't Guys Settle Down

It’s not that they aren’t interested in monogamous relationships, Hugo Schwyzer argues. It’s that they’re waiting around, in vain, for a sign that she’s “the one.”