Outreach, Advocacy and Healing for All

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How do we best create healing and resources for sexual violence victims on our college campuses?

5 Ways Cuddling Makes Us Healthier

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Touch releases oxytocin, which makes us feel better. But can hugging make us better human beings?

The 4 Features of a Powerful Apology

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Why is it so terrifying to apologize?

Remembering Roger Ebert

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What made him the one movie critic people really listened to?

It’s Just Sex, Dammit!

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Can we allow ourselves to admit that sex just isn’t as important as we make it out to be?

“How Can I Improve My Relationship With My Boyfriend’s Family?”

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My boyfriend’s family was so close to his former fiancée. Will they ever accept me?

Hurt People Hurt People: Infidelity and Self-Deception

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‘Hurt people hurt people’ explains, but does not pardon, the damage done by those who cheat on their partners.

Dear John: Dad Wants to GPS-Stalk His Teen Daughter

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Stalker dad, a troubled marriage considers swinging, and an old friend of a spouse reappears, to the letter writer’s dismay.

“My single male friends have been making comments toward my wife. Am I being overly jealous?”

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Paul’s wife has a lot of single male friends, which he has no problem with, but he’s been hearing weird things said to her that makes him uncomfortable. He wants to know: is he being too jealous?

Why Do Good People Cheat? 12/21

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For almost as long as marriage has existed, so has adultery.

There’s a Fine Line to Being the Only Man in the House

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Being the only man in a house full of females is a daily exercise in sensitivity.

Mate Poaching: Why Women Want Married Men

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A mental health professional considers why men become more attractive to women after they’ve married.

I’ll Never Forgive You

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Four little words by Victim 4 in the Jerry Sundusky case speak volumes.

Corporate Firefighters

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Kevin Buckholtz’s workplace is not on fire. So why are his co-workers always “putting out fires”?

When Trust Is Lost Can You Find It Again?

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Some damage cannot be undone. Bill Cloke on what it takes to regain intimacy.

Cutting Through Bullshit

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Atalwin Pilon on keeping your word, and the times when words fail.