She’s Not Asking For Your Advances

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It is time we pointed out the obvious and stopped blaming women for being sexually harassed.

NRA’s Strategy of Blaming the Victims

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South Carolina is ranked 9th in firearm murders. While the NRA chants that guns save lives, Warren Blumenfeld looks at the clear, cold, hard facts.

Changing The Paradigm: Addressing Our Role in Perpetuating Rape Culture

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Rape culture justifies sexualized violence by denying or minimizing its existence, and holding victims responsible. We must all play a role in ending it.

Why I Vote for Yoga Pants

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Carly Puch has had it with women being told what they should and shouldn’t wear.

3 Warning Signs You Might Have Victim Tendencies

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Kary Oberbrunner says you choose whether you let your circumstances affect your life.

I Blamed The Victim, Too – Until I Became One

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Hera McLeod didn’t fully understand the damage victim blaming caused until she became a victim herself.

Women—To Move Equality Forward, Please Work With, Not Against Men

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Thomas Fiffer asks for a new, label-free language to resolve the gender equality deadlock.

Stop Thinking Like a Perpetrator: 4 Ways to Better Support Survivors of Sexual Violence

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Jamie Utt shows us four important ways to abandon perpetrator logic and stop denying the pain of survivors.

‘Why Didn’t She Leave?’ An Abuse Survivor Speaks

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Ella Hicks, founder of the Rebel Thriver community for abuse survivors, explains why Janay and millions of others don’t leave abusive relationships.

Fox and Friends Hosts Joke About Domestic Abuse

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Fox News host: Don’t want to get beaten unconscious in an elevator? Take the stairs. Hardy har har.

Hell Yeah, That Was Rape In Game of Thrones’ “Breaker of Chains”

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Alexander Yarde is frustrated with the media encouraging rape culture with dangerous rape scenes that encourage the “but she really wanted it” way of thinking.

6 Ways Jokes about Violence Against Men Harms Male Victims

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Andrew Smiler lists six reasons why we should stop laughing at male victims of violence.

Dear John Harvard: A Plea to Stop the ‘Second Rape’ That Follows Campus Sexual Assaults

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A student’s anonymous letter, ‘Dear Harvard: You Win,’ and a law lecturer’s stinging follow-up underscore why Harvard must fight fiercely for affirmative consent.

“Can Women rape men? Most people think that they can’t.”

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The 7 Real Reasons We Suck at Ending Domestic Violence

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A blueprint for creating a culture of respect.

Survivor Advocacy is Real Work (or I’m Not Your Dancing Monkey)

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James Landrith, survivor of sexual assault, does advocacy work. He doesn’t do it for entertainment. He does it to help other survivors and create social change.