How Long Would It Take You to Get a New Job?

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Any response other than “a couple of weeks” and you’re at risk.

“Sexual abuse of men happens much more often than anyone seems ready to admit.”

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These are comments by Christopher Anderson, Scott Mauer, and trey1963 on the post “I Am a Survivor, and I Can Finally Talk About It”.

Universities Still Struggle to Handle Reports of Sexual Assault

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Institutions of higher learning across the county must take an intentional and proactive approach in preventing and responding to reports of sexual assault made on campus.

The Importance of Black Male Mental Health

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Anthony Carter is black, male, gay — and definitely not crazy. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about mental health.

“We all are guilty of expressing raw emotion in an unproductive manner–especially in intimate relationships”

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This is a comment by Caitlin on the post “How to Deal with a Psycho Bitch from Hell”.

Good Men Can Be Their Own Worst Enemies

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Men, we have met the enemy, and he is us.

“Society won’t let me have the sex I want, but Johnnie Walker will.”

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This is a comment by Alyssa Royse on the post “Nice Guys Commit Rape Too”.

No Longer a Victim

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Donald D’Haene was on ‘The Oprah Winfrey Show’—twice—as a survivor of sexual abuse, not a victim.

“Until someone has experienced my horrors, no one has the right to tell me to forgive.”

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This is a comment by W.R.R. on the post “Why Forgiving Others Makes Life Better For You”. Trigger warning: contains references to child sexual abuse and rape.

“We focus on the abuser and victim, but it’s other adults around the situation who must step in.”

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This is a comment by on the post “But Why Didn’t You Say Something?”.

“As a victim of child sex abuse, I wish someone acted violently against my offender.”

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This is a comment by MsRN on the post “Talking Myself Out of Murdering Jerry Sandusky”.

Pushed

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Kenny D’Cruz tries to make sense of a shocking attack.

“Nothing pisses off a racist person more than a nice person.”

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This comment is from Johnny Walker Black on the post “Is this really news to anyone? Oh, not if you’re a black man.”

On Ownership, Sexual Violence, and Standard Operating Procedures

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In the world of dialogue about sexual violence, it’s time the language include men as more than aggressors. They are also victims, and we must acknowledge their experiences.

On Men and Victimization

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Wherever there’s a victim, Frederick Marx writes, there’s also a perpetrator.

“Good men are invisible because they don’t stand up and demand to be counted.”

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Comment by John Sctoll on the post Mars Isn’t Such a Nice Place.