Life After Acceptance: On Feeling and Fighting Shame

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One man’s story of how he works to overcome the shameful feelings that can arise from the trauma of being sexually abused.

Boys Become Men: On Recovering from Childhood Trauma in Healthy Ways

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Childhood trauma, its impact on men and boys, and how to support other men’s efforts to cope with those impacts in healthy ways.

Man Up? Woman Up? How About We All Just Stand Up?

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Tamara Star’s advice to all adults, men and women, on how to live more responsible lives.

Slut-Shaming is Against the Guy Code

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Wilkine Brutus on the recent K-Pop scandal and the need to end slut-shaming.

22 Veterans Will Kill Themselves Today

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War veteran believes “There’s probably a tidal wave of suicides coming.”

The Anti-Slavery Movement’s Imagery Problem

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To truly combat human trafficking we must choose and use images wisely.

Culture’s Effect on Victims

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A story of child labor, sex slavery and those times when culture slaps you in the face.

Rage, Rage Against…Myself

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Anger issues can be intensely damaging to relationships. Cully Perlman shares his account of battling with his own internal rage and its effects within marriage.

Evolving Our Image of Human Trafficking

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Why the human trafficking movement must move beyond its reliance on crisis imagery.

The Forgotten Many: Sex Trafficked Boys

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It’s naïve to think we can end sex trafficking when we’ve not begun to speak about it accurately.

How BDSM Helped a Rape Survivor Recover

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Author Jane Devin overcame fear to embrace an unlikely ally

The Death of Innocence at Amherst College

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Avery Stone’s candid piece about the culture of sexual assault at Amherst College

On Men and Victimization: Part Two

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“Men and boys are hurting.”

On Men and Victimization

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Wherever there’s a victim, Frederick Marx writes, there’s also a perpetrator.

Bash Patriarchy, Not Men

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Maria Pawlowska argues that all, including men, are victims of patriarchy.