Why Be a Premium Member? Just Look at What We Have Helped to Change

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We’re the guys who eat stereotypes for lunch. So just what is it we are trying to change?

Human Trafficking In South Africa: An Elusive Statistical Nightmare

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Due to the lack of reliable statistics surrounding human trafficking, there is no real scope of how large the problem really is, making it more difficult to police.

Maybe Don’t Post My Picture

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A poem about taking away the glory that the killers in this country seek.

Breaking Free of Silence and Shame

I Am a Survivor by Kathleen Christiansen

Dani Bostick breaks free of the silence and shame that surround sexual abuse.

Light Between the Bars: The Road to Redemption

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A man put a group of prison inmates in a room with nothing but a camera. The result is stunning.

50 Shades of Abuse

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To stop abuse before it starts, Elisabeth Corey says we need to start with the belief systems that perpetuate it.

21 Advocates for Men and Boys Who Don’t Hate Women

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Believe it or not, there are people out there who support women while sticking up for men. Christopher Anderson lists 21 of them.

Why Do We Need to Blame Victims?

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Why victim-blaming is perfectly natural, even though it’s not necessary or perfectly OK.

Why Society Won’t Let Boys and Men Be Victims of Rape

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Enough with forcing young boys into the damaging confinements of what it means to be an alpha male.

Human Trafficking by the Numbers

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A clear representation of how big the human trafficking problem really is.

Stop Thinking Like a Perpetrator: 4 Ways to Better Support Survivors of Sexual Violence

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Jamie Utt shows us four important ways to abandon perpetrator logic and stop denying the pain of survivors.

9-11 and the Lingering Aftermath

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As we remember and honor all those who dies on 9/11, we must care and support all those still suffering from the resulting health and disability challenges

5 Signs You’re Being Played by a ‘Victim’

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Thomas Fiffer pinpoints 5 signs that a “victim-player” is playing you and shares 5 traits of true survivors.

From the Husband of a Survivor

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Kevin Nielsen shares the story of how he helped his wife heal from her sexual abuse, and offers advice for other secondary victims.

“Rape is a problem of control, not sex…linked to general disrespect & dominance.”

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Jimmy Savile, Rape Culture and the Lessons for Us All

Jimmy Savile, Rape Culture and the Lessons for Us All

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Graham Phoenix finds the term ‘rape culture’ offensive, but in hearing the British Health Secretary, this week, reporting to the British Parliament on the Savile Affair, he questions whether his being offended is valid any more.