What Real Men Talk About

T Cooper interview, T Cooper writer, transgender men, FTM, transmen, Real Man Adventures, gender transition

Justin Cascio talks to T Cooper, author of Real Man Adventures, about writing, crying, and being a real man.

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The Discomfort of the Mirror: Silver Linings Playbook, Bipolar, and Me

Silver Linings Playbook, Bradley Cooper, movie review, bipolar, bipolar disorder, mental health, men's health, bipolar men, violence

Ryan W. Bradley squirms through a film about a man like he was, not long ago: undiagnosed, violent, and about to hit bottom.

The Politically Correct Terrorist

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How do we define terrorism? Carl Pettit takes a closer look.

Mentored Boys or Monster Boys

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“In the absence of elders, the impetuosity of youth becomes the slow death of the community.” Jed Diamond takes his grandson on a rite of passage.

“I think it’s playing off the ‘men look funny in womens’ clothing’ thing which is a big part of western society’s current gender disorder.”

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These are comments by RMNZ, Random_Stranger, and wellokaythen on the post “What Would it Look Like if Gender Roles Were Reversed in Advertising? (Video)”.

A Surprising Job Offer from Mother Teresa

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Snake Bloomstrand relates how Mother Teresa opened the eyes and heart of Father Bennie.

“The country pays attention when there is a school shooting or a bomb, but we rarely look at these events through the lens of gender.”

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This is a comment by Jed Diamond on the post “Dear Mr. President, Our Nation’s Boys Need Your Attention”.

Dear John: He Says I Cry Too Much

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A boyfriend who thinks his girlfriend cries too much, a guy who thinks his gay friends have too much PDA, and a son playing violent video games at a friends house.

Who Is Greater?

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What makes someone like Dzhokhar Tsarnaev vulnerable to radicalization? A Muslim American parent of two young men asks a question that strikes close to home.

A World of Illusion

conspiracy theorists, paranoia, vast government conspiracies, alternate theories of historic events, violence, mass murder, Root Down, Carl Pettit

A world full of conspiracy theorists is the perfect place for an evil mastermind to work, undetected. So warns Carl Pettit: but just which side is he on?

After Watertown, Can We Blame the Parents?

violence against children, mass shootings, families grief, death of a child, father's grief, raising children, raising killers, compassion, grief

JD Roberto asks: What can the fathers of children lost in other American tragedies—Oklahoma City, Columbine—teach us in their responses to grief?

Should We Forgive Chris Brown?

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By accepting Chris Brown’s apology and consuming his products, are we saying domestic abuse is forgivable?

Talking to My Son About Boston

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“Maybe they were angry about something, and they didn’t know how to talk about their feelings,” said nine year old Mattias.

What Happened When I Told: A Boy’s Sexual Assault Story

sexual violence against boys, male survivors

The neighbor boy came into my room and asked if I knew anything about sex.

I Come From: Three Essays from Venice High School Students

young male writers, young men who write, young men, high school boys, boys, poetry, pride, PEN USA

Marcus Anderson, Fernando Garcia, and Steve Miramontes are three young men who know where they come from.

“I believe connected-by-the-heart intimate sex can be wonderful; but other types of sex can be good, even wonderful, too.”

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This is a comment by W.R.R. on the post “Heart and Balls”.