“My girlfriend would grill me after going to the grocery story. How many affairs can I have in 10 minutes?”

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Edgar Ramsey and Jimbo talk about past girlfriends, sexual compatibility and why jealousy is their top deal breaker in relationships. Have you experienced jealousy in your relationships? Is it at the top of your deal breaker list, or is something else?

“I was 22. First time ever black-out drunk, first time having sex. No consent, no condom, no remembrance of it happening, better yet enjoying it.”

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But it’s the stories that get told that help give a collective understanding of a word so powerful that some people are afraid to say it out loud.

“Most people have to break hearts and have broken hearts to find a relationship that lasts.”

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This is a comment by Jimbo on the post “Let’s Assume I’m a Virgin”.

“Why when a dude admits to his virginity do people think there’s something wrong?”

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This is a comment by Tom B on the post “I Thought You Were Like a Ken Doll”.

“Your sexual activity does not make you a man. Things like compassion, honor, and honesty do.”

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Æther talks about how to start having the kind of sex you want while attracting the kind of partners you want.

“We need to stop treating female virginity like a treasure and male virginity like a curse.”

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This is a comment by Danny on the post “Can’t Get Laid”.

Dating a 36-year-old virgin

I knew that statistically there had to be at least a handful of 36-year-old virgins in Southern California, but I never expected one to be cute. Or that I would end up on a date with one of them.

The Knight/Beast Dichotomy

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Just as women are trapped by the stereotypes of the virgin/whore dichotomy, so do good guy/bad guy stereotypes trap men. Ozy Frantz breaks down how these cultural images work.

How It’s Supposed to Work

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“She was the one who brought the condom today, the mix CD and candle. She’d pulled off his socks the way an expert would, not the way a virgin would.” By Christy Cruchfield

The 37-Year-Old Virgin

“I want you right now,” she said in her best attempt at being seductive. In September of 2010 I wrote about the 36-Year-Old Virgin turning 37 and remaining untapped. I planned on waiting a while (but not 10 months) before revealing the final installment of this epic “Quadogy”. A quadogy is kind of like a [...]

Happy birthday 36-Year-Old Virgin

I totally could have nailed this one if I had wanted to, but out of respect for the Virgin I declined. On Labor Day, 2010 I sat down at my laptop to knock this post out and became sidetracked, which led to the whole Peabody & Sherman post (which no one has commented on, so [...]

The 36-Year-Old Virgin

“So…You gonna try and tap it?” She had one of those perma-smiles on her face as she walked into my office for the first time.  We met online and had chatted a few times before deciding to go out and tonight was the night.   As she sat down at my desk I had no clue [...]