The “Problem” with Male Virginity

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Dr. NerdLove talks about the problems with the way we think about male virginity…and how to fix our toxic thinking.

You Should Have Given It Time: An Open Letter to Elliot Rodger

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Darrell Milton writes to Elliot Rodger about, among other things, why being a 22-year-old virgin is not a big deal.

Losing It With John Stamos: Olivia Munn

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Olivia Munn, geek goddess & star of HBO’s hit series The Newsroom, recounts her first sexual experience and it is hilarious!

The 30-Year-Old Virgins

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JJ Vincent thinks he finally knows why he and his friends did not understand the 30-year-old virgins.

Special is a Bitter Taste

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Being a teenager sucks, but when I treated relationships like they were disposable, I didn’t know I was hurting other people too.

Angel

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Lowering his beauty standards proves too high a challenge for Andy Bodle.

Humiliation at the Hands of an Icebreaker

Never Have I Ever, a drinking game

An insecure young man takes a drinking game as a challenge in personal development.

The 20, 30 and 40+ Year-Old Virgin

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Doctor NerdLove examines the complicated cultural and personal narratives surrounding male virginity.

Let’s Assume I’m a Virgin

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Being a 23 year old man and still a virgin seems to require an explanation.

I F—-d a Girl and I Think I Didn’t Like It

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Everyone’s tastes are different.

Fox News: Be Abstinent Until Marriage, Mimbos.

Steven Crowder apparently waited until he got married to have sex, and would like to tell us all about it. In general, I am happy for Mr. Crowder. He waited until he got married to have sex and had a very enjoyable loss of his virginity. I’m glad! I think everyone should have the right […]

“There is a huge expectation for men to orgasm when having sex.”

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This is a comment by elementary_watson on the post “How Did I Miss This Article?”

“Why when a dude admits to his virginity do people think there’s something wrong?”

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This is a comment by Tom B on the post “I Thought You Were Like a Ken Doll”.

“Your sexual activity does not make you a man. Things like compassion, honor, and honesty do.”

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Æther talks about how to start having the kind of sex you want while attracting the kind of partners you want.

I Thought You Were Like a Ken Doll

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Is a man who is a virgin not really a man?

“We don’t know much about attraction, so we laugh at or deny people who can’t get laid.”

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This is a comment by Nistan on the post “Can’t Get Laid”.