“She Was My First —”

Jason Williams regrets that his wife was not his “first” the way he was for her. As a result of those feelings, he did something amazing for their 10th wedding anniversary.

Comment of the Day: ‘Dear kids – sex has nothing to do with your value as a person’

To have or not to have sex—the choice should be yours.

The Dangerous Lies We Have To Stop Telling Boys about Sex

Our current culture is celebrating males having sex, regardless of their age, and this is putting boys at risk.

I Am Afraid No One Will Ever Love Me

Dr. Joe Kort answers painful questions from an 18-year-old man seeking the courage to come out and find love.

I Kept It In My Pants For a Year – On Purpose! – And I’m Happier Than Ever

I’ve been everywhere sexually. So I’m abstaining until I connect with someone on a deeper level.”

#whatyounevertaught: 5 Ways to Make Sex Ed Better for Boys

Why should boys be left to learn the hard way about real issues regarding sex and relationships?

The “Problem” with Male Virginity

Dr. NerdLove talks about the problems with the way we think about male virginity…and how to fix our toxic thinking.

You Should Have Given It Time: An Open Letter to Elliot Rodger

Darrell Milton writes to Elliot Rodger about, among other things, why being a 22-year-old virgin is not a big deal.

Losing It With John Stamos: Olivia Munn

Olivia Munn, geek goddess & star of HBO’s hit series The Newsroom, recounts her first sexual experience and it is hilarious!

The 30-Year-Old Virgins

JJ Vincent thinks he finally knows why he and his friends did not understand the 30-year-old virgins.

Special is a Bitter Taste

Being a teenager sucks, but when I treated relationships like they were disposable, I didn’t know I was hurting other people too.


Lowering his beauty standards proves too high a challenge for Andy Bodle.

Humiliation at the Hands of an Icebreaker

An insecure young man takes a drinking game as a challenge in personal development.

The 20, 30 and 40+ Year-Old Virgin

Doctor NerdLove examines the complicated cultural and personal narratives surrounding male virginity.

Let’s Assume I’m a Virgin

Being a 23 year old man and still a virgin seems to require an explanation.

I F—-d a Girl and I Think I Didn’t Like It

Everyone’s tastes are different.