“Somewhere out there is a man who can’t bring himself to have sex with an otherwise attractive woman because her vulva is too dark.”

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This comment is from wellokaythen on the post “Ladies Bleaching Private Parts…Men Are You Getting a Bad Rap?”

“Theoretically a man could worry that he’s addicted to porn and it turns out he’s really not. Is there room in the diagnostic system for that possibility?”

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If his partner has a problem with his porn use, then that’s not necessarily evidence by itself he’s addicted.

“Sometimes the attention that’s meant to help and protect and diagnose and treat may make the situation worse in the long run.”

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This comment was from wellokaythen on the post “Are Women Contributing to the Demise of Men?” by Tom Matlack on the Good Feed Blog.

“It’s not a zero sum game between masculinity and femininity.”

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This comment was by wellokaythen on the post “Why I Can’t Write What’s Good About Masculinity.”