My Queer Life: On Being Transgender and Married. Twice.

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Alex Myers married his wife twice. Once as part of a same-sex couple and again as an opposite-sex couple. Here’s what this taught him about marriage.

Portrait of Jealousy: A Man Accused

Portrait of Jealousy by Terry Moore

Did this man’s roving eyes really ruin the picnic outing, or was it his wife’s jealous nature?

In Case You Were Wondering

Man and Woman

Justin Hamm’s speaker confronts an insecurity common to many men and women.

An Old Man in a Blouse, At Market

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In this convention-defying poem, Stephen Scott Whitaker reminds us that gender identity, sexual orientation, and clothing choice are not necessarily related.

14 Marital Tips on Our 14th Anniversary

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If you are lucky (and you work your ass off) your marriage could last for a very long time. With that thought looming over your head, it’s good to have some guidelines as you attempt to live with the same person for years on end.

I’m Tired Of Having To Fix, Learn, And Improve All The F**king Time. When Does It Stop?

Give me a break.

Steven Lake is at the end of his rope. Or is it the beginning of a new way of being?

8 Signs You’ve Found The Woman You Should Make Your Wife

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A few great reasons why the love of your life should be the lady in your life.

Shattered

Shattered by Sam Galison

A wife falls apart, a marriage is broken, and a husband tries to pick up the pieces.

Sudden Downpour

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Angel Garcia’s speaker is “trying to be a good man” even as he finds himself faced with the oldest of temptations.

How far will she go? Can your wife be your best friend and should she be?

Can We Be Friends

Steven Lake examines the crazy idea that your wife could be your best fiend . . . I mean friend.

My Brother’s Future Wife Is a Mail-Order Bride

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Marriage should be about love and partnership, not politics and servitude.

Ten Ways Men Touch Their Wives Without Touching Them

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Steven Lake shows us how we can touch our partner without touching.

An Open Letter to my Future Wife: How I Plan to Make you Happy Every day of Your Life

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Let this letter be a promise to you that I will do my best to be the man I want to be for you.

The Ick Factor: Who Does the Dirty Work?

Honey! I might need some help here.

Steven Lake examines how we define the sh*t jobs around the house and who does the clean up.

Why My Husband Will Never Have a “Good Wife”

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Stephane Wahl has found that truly being a good wife means that she’s not always such a ‘good wife’.

Sunday Night in My Thirties

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Thom Ingram reflects on the pressure some of us face to have children.