Refresh This Page: How to See Your Partner for Who They Really Are, and Not for Who You Want Them to Be.

Out Of My Comfort Zone

Growth hacking: Sometimes you have to reboot and refresh in order to handle your partner’s personal growth.

Poem for Saturday

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Justin Hamm offers his own simple philosophy of thanksgiving and celebration in a poem that will ring true for many.

My Wife Is My Best Friend, Why Am I Not Hers?

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Cody Mullins on friendship, family, and love.

The Cutest Gangsta I Know—My Wife

The Cutest Gangsta by Sir Prise

This husband has one cool wife. And the look on her face when she sees he’s filming her is priceless.

Rabbits

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Lauren Camp’s poem points to the surprise intersection of destruction and tenderness, a place that some men have surely occupied at some point or another.

My Wife Tells Me 10 Things I Do That Make Her Happy

Life Is Fleeting

Steven Lake interviews his wife to find out what he does that makes her happy. There were some surprises.

How My Wife And I Survived 6 Hours Alone In a Room

Walking Towards The Light

With nothing but time on his hands and an empty room, Steven Lake looks at his wife, and creates magic.

When I Was Pregnant

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Matthew Lippman’s poem provides a dark yet quirky look at contemporary manhood.

My Queer Life: On Being Transgender and Married. Twice.

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Alex Myers married his wife twice. Once as part of a same-sex couple and again as an opposite-sex couple. Here’s what this taught him about marriage.

Portrait of Jealousy: A Man Accused

Portrait of Jealousy by Terry Moore

Did this man’s roving eyes really ruin the picnic outing, or was it his wife’s jealous nature?

In Case You Were Wondering

Man and Woman

Justin Hamm’s speaker confronts an insecurity common to many men and women.

An Old Man in a Blouse, At Market

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In this convention-defying poem, Stephen Scott Whitaker reminds us that gender identity, sexual orientation, and clothing choice are not necessarily related.

14 Marital Tips on Our 14th Anniversary

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If you are lucky (and you work your ass off) your marriage could last for a very long time. With that thought looming over your head, it’s good to have some guidelines as you attempt to live with the same person for years on end.

I’m Tired Of Having To Fix, Learn, And Improve All The F**king Time. When Does It Stop?

Give me a break.

Steven Lake is at the end of his rope. Or is it the beginning of a new way of being?

8 Signs You’ve Found The Woman You Should Make Your Wife

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A few great reasons why the love of your life should be the lady in your life.

Shattered

Shattered by Sam Galison

A wife falls apart, a marriage is broken, and a husband tries to pick up the pieces.