This is a comment by Lars Fisher on the post “10 Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Porn“.
“Yeah. ‘Talk to each other’ is maybe the single best sex advice you can give. Drop the idea that you’re supposed to know what your partner likes. Drop the idea that sex is supposed to work out by magic. Human beings have evolved language, and we use it for everything else. Use it for sex. Talk about what you like and do not like—before, during, and after.
“And thanks, Roger, for a well balanced piece.”
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