Edgar Ramsey and Jimbo talk about past girlfriends, sexual compatibility and why jealousy is their top deal breaker in relationships. Have you experienced jealousy in your relationships? Is it at the top of your deal breaker list, or is something else?
These are comments by Edgar Ramsey and Jimbo on the post “What’s Your Deal Breaker in a Relationship?“
Edgar Ramsey said:
Good list, Jimbo. It is similar to what I would have written. I would probably bump the jealousy one up to the top. I had a live in GF years ago who was so bad, it was like getting grilled by the Gestopo when I got home from running to the store. How many affairs can you have in 10 minutes?
Politically conservative — good one. When my wife and I were dating, she stated that she was a registered Republican. My jaw just about hit the floor until she explained she only did that to mess with their primaries and was actually a liberal. 15 years later we are still together.
Some people mentioned infidelity, that part isn’t such a big deal for me, but then I identify as poly. Same with sexual experience. I know my wife has a lot more experience than I do, I look at that as a plus. Most employers do on your résumé, it usually means you are better or more qualified at something. Kind of like going to the Bunny Ranch and asking for a virgin.
BJs? Hard to imagine that being a deal breaker, but then my 2nd wife didn’t do that and I didn’t have one for 10 years, so yes, it is much nicer being married to someone when the oral sex is reciprocal.
My first girlfriend’s (who was very jealous) mother would do that to her father. The first time I saw her interrogate him about a 10 minute trip to 7-11 for ice cream (that she requested!) was when I knew I had to get out of that relationship even if it meant never having a GF again (the pain of youth you know).
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