While magazines will try to hook you by making you feel like you don’t know the “secret” to finding love or good relationships, Carlo says that they don’t exist, and that you have to work to understand each other on a personal basis.
This is a comment by Carlo Alcos on the post “20 Things I’ve Learned About Men from Working at Penthouse“.
Carlo Alcos said:
There are no “secrets” to men or to women. Each person is an individual. No set of rules or lists is going to allow understanding of the person/people you’re dealing with. What works 100% of the time is clear, open, and honest communication. If one of you can’t do this, there is bound to be problems.
When we can communicate openly and honestly and seek to understand each other on an individual basis, relationships will prosper. Or maybe they will end, which is fine too. All to say, when we understand each other clearly we can decide if it’s a relationship worth carrying on. Learn to listen, learn to be open and honest.
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