This is a comment by Gordon on the post “How to Receive a Blowjob Respectfully“.
Camille Crimson originally said:
“All of this builds upon itself, creating a relationship where passion can grow, people feel safe and you’re both encouraged to explore”
Gordon responded:
“Well, this isn’t a piece I’d expected to come up in my feed … but you can see the author’s passion in her writing. I once mistakenly said that I could genuinely endure a relationship without this type of interaction, it wasn’t until after that relationship and the beginning of the next that I realized how wrong I was for believing that statement.
“With that lesson learned, I’ve had a much greater appreciation for the kind of passion and love I now experience, and I am much more aware of my partners enjoyment in reciprocity. Too many people simplify these things into sexual acts and do not realize the full beauty of a situation where two people who love each other share their mutual passion and lust.
“When all you’re concerned about is the orgasm, you really aren’t getting half of the full experience and benefits of the physical relationship with your partner. If you can learn to appreciate the tantric confluence of your two energies, you’ll exponentially increase your depths for understanding the relationship you have beneath and beyond what is immediately apparent at the surface.”
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This comment made me so happy. I’m really glad I got to start off the discussion with such a great jumping-off point. Thanks, Gordon!