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Getting any girl to fall for you is quite an achievement, and things certainly don’t get any easier if you want to seduce a cowgirl. Cowboy dating pretty much comes down to keeping it as real as possible. Remember, she’s a hands-on kind of person, gets things done on her own, and doesn’t play games. If you’re direct and trustworthy you’ve got a shot. If not, chances are she’s won’t give you her time of day. Below we discuss your strategy at length to ensure your cowgirl wants you, and only you so badly she can’t focus on anything else!
#1: Self-Confidence is Crucial
Like in any game of seduction, your self-confidence is absolutely crucial if you want to get your message across and reach a cowgirl. She isn’t likely to fall for a shy person because being shy is often equated with not being tough enough. Clearly, your cowgirl wants someone tough by her side for a very simple reason – so he’s able to keep up with her. How manly are you going to feel if you can’t fix your car engine but she can? Don’t forget that being self-confident doesn’t mean being arrogant. It just means knowing your own self-worth and not being afraid to show it. In other words, just because she’s beautiful doesn’t mean you’re not. Believe in yourself!
#2: Be Trustworthy
A cowgirl wants a real man she can rely on to be there to watch her back or help out when she’s stuck. She has to be sure you’ll always be available to her, which means you need to show up when you say you’d show up, keep your word, and pretty much have a good reputation. When she needs to vent or needs help, make sure you’re there for her to show that she can depend on you. You need to represent stability and security in her mind if you’re hoping to become her man.
#3: Flirt in Moderation
Flirting is attractive when done right and your goal with flirting is to get her to laugh, in turn making her more relaxed and open to having a nice conversation with you, sharing a few laughs, and eventually getting intimate and taking things to the next level. Plus, it’s a great way to boost your self-confidence, especially if you get her to smile fast. Remember, you must not smother your cowgirl if you want her under your arm. She’s independent by nature and needs space to roam free. You must give it to her by leaving her alone. How will she miss you and think about you if you’re always in her face? She won’t even get a chance to realize she likes you.
#4: Make Sure She Knows You Want Her
Flirting is nice and all, but unless you want to find yourself in the friend zone you need to make your move fast. It pretty much means going for the kill once you’ve established the basics. Do thoughtful things, and let her know you’re thinking of her. You can send her cheeky messages here and there when you’re at work or are otherwise busy. Use instant messaging to your advantage, and send her a text once a day, but always at a different time so you give her a chance to wonder when you’d reach out. If she needs you, you have to be there, no questions asked. By this point, she’s already comfortable with you enough so you can lock this thing down by asking her out on a well-planned date.
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This content is sponsored by Stefan Simonovic.
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