Have you ever looked at a girl and wonder what kind of guy she might be dating? Or if she is not yet dating, the kind of guy she could fall in love with?
As guys, we want to make more money, dress expensively and drive nice cars, because we believe that success attracts a lady. This is not wrong. However, it doesn’t spell doom for us brilliant but still struggling young men. All hope isn’t lost. This article will show you simple qualities that will not only make that wonderful lady find you attractive but also falls in love with you.
I understand that every woman has her own individual peculiarity and interest so I am not putting all the ladies into one big bubble. Having said that, here are some of the things that can keep a woman stuck to a man.
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1. Good communicator
We don’t talk as much as women. But there is a way a man can speak that is enough to pull a lady close to him. Ladies generally love men who are interesting to be with — good listeners and great observers. They want to hear you talk and see the way your voice fills up with excitement when you talk about the things you love.
They want you to be able to communicate with them about anything effortlessly.
2. Passionate
Maybe it is how you sip your cappuccino or how you hold on to your glass of wine. But ladies love men who are passionate. Men who know what they want and are not willing to settle for anything less than that.
Show her that you can want something and get it. That you do not just have dreams but you are an achiever. Someone who would rather bleed than beg.
3. Sense of humour
Nobody wants to hang around a boring person, ladies are drawn to humour. If you can always make her laugh, she will keep falling for you at every corner. Because you fill her with butterflies that tickle her to the point where she is always left breathless whenever she is with you, and that will keep her glued to you.
4. Authenticity
Nothing is more appealing than pure and natural. That is exactly how women want their men to be, authentic. Where you’re not faking your smiles and hiding behind shadows and fancy clothing. She wants you raw. Women believe that a man who is brave enough to be himself around her is capable of love.
Express yourself genuinely and do not struggle to tell her who you really are.
5. Generosity
If you want to give, give purely and not because you want something in return. The more selfless you are in your giving the more sacrificing you appear to be. Women find it difficult to leave a man who’s proven to her that he’s able to give up anything for her.
6. Willing to chase
When it comes to love, there is no logic. Women love being chased. They love being petted and cared for. They want to be treated like babies. Women barely walk away from men who handle them with care. Ladies just want to be followed and cajoled. They want to see you desperate for them and make them feel they deserve you.
7. Ability to teach
Women love to learn. They find experienced men very much attractive. Teach her how to use the new kitchen equipment. Teach her how to drive — how to play an instrument. Teach her how to play a game and how to use an app. How to cook a meal, etc.
Learn something so you could teach it to her. She finds that romantic and appealing.
8. Not shy to say sorry
Men are often considered to be egocentric. And that’s what make men who say sorry more appealing to a lady. Apologize for keeping her waiting. Apologies for not getting her the necklace as promised. Apologize for cancelling the date. And for Pete’s sake, apologizes that she is sad. Even if the reason has nothing to do with you.
It makes her feel safe, secured and deeply loved.
9. Good leadership
Women love to follow but you will never know this if they do not see you as someone worth following. Men who are able to take charge of their lives and handle the people around them are naturally attractive to ladies. Pay the bills. Say what you mean. Mean what you say. Be in charge of your life and keep to your word.
10. A builder
Being able to do things for yourself is wonderful. And it increases your worth as an individual and earns you respect. Budget, save, invest and build, do not stay idle. Let her not meet you doing nothing be someone that she is proud of. Someone that she can show off with. Someone that can make people respect her, someone that adds value to her life.
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Final words…
If you look closely, this list doesn’t just speak about how to get a good woman or make a good woman fall in love with you. It speaks basically to what you need as a man to be a sophisticated adult male.
Women aren’t dummies and we should be glad they aren’t. Their desire may sometimes be unrealistic and farfetched, but they cause us to strive to attain our full potential.
So while on the surface, it may seem you’re working on these qualities to score with the ladies, you’re doing yourself a huge benefit.
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This post was previously published on Medium.
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