In the relationship between men and women, we often feel that women are relatively passive and rarely take the initiative to pursue the other half they like.
Because for women, feelings are not chased but waited.
But no matter how introverted a woman is, when she faces the other half she likes, she will take the initiative to make some hints.
Whether it is a man or a woman, when the heart is excited, the secretion of hormones will increase, which will naturally be reflected in some of their actions.
Here are a few hints that you should not miss.
01 ask you to travel, it means she likes you very much
Zhongshu Qian once said: “If you want to become a husband and wife, go on a trip first.” Travel is the most precious time between men and women. It is a beautiful thing to explore each other during the holidays.
Whether it’s a short or long trip, it can warm up the relationship between two people.
If a woman takes the initiative to ask you to go on a trip, it shows that she has a lot of trust in you and wants to be alone with you.
People are more likely to deliver their sincerity in a relaxed environment, so be sure to seize such an opportunity.
For a woman, being able to invite a man to travel with her shows that you have a very important position in her heart and that you are the person she wants to date for a long time. You gave her enough trust and security.
During travel, beautiful natural scenery can create a sweet atmosphere, let each other relax, and walk into each other’s hearts.
On the other hand, if a woman can take the initiative to send an invitation, then she is fully prepared, and she may also expect better things to happen. She may be more eager than you, the arrival of this day.
Women, like men, are afraid of loneliness and loneliness, and they also want to find their other half. When she makes this strong suggestion, she must not shirk, because she may have gathered all the courage.
02 invite you to her house
If it is a very ordinary friend of the opposite sex, the girl will not invite him to the house. Often choose to meet in some public places. Because home is a woman, a very private place.
Sometimes, I think, women tend to be more assertive and courageous than men, especially when she is confronted with men who have feelings, she will send out a strong signal of love.
On the contrary, men will hesitate and even back off.
When a woman invites you to sit down, she already knows what will happen next, and she expects you to walk into her life, understand her and care for her.
In that private space, you can cook together, watch movies together, and have a long hug together.
So, as a man, you must not miss this best period.
In this small space, your hearts will be closed and your relationship will be closer, which is a very beautiful thing.
03 talk to you on the phone late at night
The nighttime is very ambiguous. At this time, people have relaxed, work is done, and the room is quiet. If this time, she always calls you and chats with you for a long time. It means that she loves you very much.
It’s a sweet feeling to listen to each other’s breath and gentle words in the radio waves during the long night.
It’s late at night, but she can’t sleep because she missed you, so she was willing to chat with you all the time.
I think friends who have been in love should have had the experience of chatting late at night. At this time, the two are often in a period of ambiguous or passionate love.
A friend once asked me: How can I tell if a person is in love with me?
I said: The person who chats with you late at night loves you very much.
Later, he found a special person to chat with. Although the two were in a long-distance relationship, they would talk late every day and always felt that there was nothing to talk about.
Fate depends on waiting, it can’t wait. If you love another person, but you can’t express or respond, then you will eventually break up.
When the opposite sex around you dares to give you hints, you must remember to respond. Because the girl took the initiative to make hints, it has been explained that she lowered her posture to pursue you.
Good love is very simple, but no matter how simple it is, it never responds and will be fleeting.
The fate of people is very wonderful. If you find the other half who fits, then don’t let go easily, and firmly grasp the happiness in front of you, and you will have no regrets.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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