The guy of your dreams generally doesn’t need a lot of effort to win him over and ensure that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. It’s important to keep in mind that pure love can not be forced.
You may flip yourself upside down and yet accomplish nothing if the chemistry isn’t correct.
But if you like each other and find one another attractive, this blog post may help you win him over and make him fall in love with you.
Generally speaking, you can say that it takes 4 stages through which you and your ideal boy have to pass before he loves you and you are ultimately a couple:
Excite His Interest
Naturally, your ideal man should know you at an early stage. If you already know each other well, you can go straight to the second step. The following thesis should be considered by all:
Success and failure are determined in the first seven-seconds
At first sight, men don’t fall in love. However, for the future path of your relationship, your first encounter is extremely significant.
To get a man’s attention directly, you must make him immediately and definitely notice.
You’re sure you’re not going to do it if you rush, flirt with another guy, or grumble about the weather with your female pals.
When a woman stands out from the crowd, the man’s attention is drawn to her. A hearty laugh or even a pleasant laugh at what you are doing will suffice. Men find women who are joking and having a good time more attractive.
You may also talk to him personally if you’d like. Besides women, men like a confident attitude. Inspire him with your charisma and he’ll want to visit you more often!
Get to know
No matter how you catch his attention, the second step is all about becoming acquainted.
As well as finding out for yourself whether he is the right partner for you, he must also come to understand that living with you is much more enjoyable.
When you’re just beginning to know one another, you shouldn’t cling to each other.
Be open-minded and free-spirited. Spend a lot of time with him, but don’t be afraid to let him know that you also have a life.
Instead of becoming frustrated and reacting indignantly when he cancels or does not respond for a few days, let him know that you are independent and can still enjoy life without him.
If that’s the case, tell him you’re looking forward to the next encounter. This will impress him, and he will value your time with him much more.
He understands that you can live happily ever after without him, but can he do the same?
He has to realize that you’re always there for him and that you’re considerate of his life and time when he’s not around. You’re not clingy, but a strong and independent girl.
Show What You are Interested in
The most essential thing has already been accomplished.
Your ideal man understands that there is someone who cares about him and who can forgive and accept his faults. He has a friend that he can spend time with and who doesn’t give up in the face of adversity.
Exactly what a guy seeks in a woman! Almost no woman can convince him they need him, but that they’re not lost without him and offer him his independence at the same time.
In this way, you may stand out from the throng. He’ll be grateful for it.
The guy must understand that you are interested in what he has to say about his life.
A simple “How’s it going?” is not sufficient. It’s a good idea to question him about his life and what makes him happy and sad.
Don’t just tell him that you care about his family or friends, show him you’re there for him in good times and in bad.
To make the time, he spends with you the most memorable of his life; he listens to him and attempts to fulfill any requests he has.
Wait and Watch
Likely, you have already observed that the guy no longer wants to live without you in his life.
In the last stage, it’s important to be patient and not restrict or pressure him. An enamored guy will tell you!
Either way, it’s inevitable. May require more time, or may not know precisely what to tell you at the moment.
Allow him the time he needs. Maybe it’ll just take a few weeks to get there. Hopefully, the answer may take weeks or even months.
Remember this: a man who takes the time to talk to you, who shares his concerns with yours, who is open about his relationships with his friends and family, who shows tenderness towards you, is someone you have been pleasing for some time and who is already thinking about your relationship and future together, regardless of whether or not his feelings have yet been expressed to you!
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Previously Published on medium.
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