Being in love is a wonderful experience, and when we are with the right person, we begin to love ourselves even more. However, when someone loses their love, things turn around. It hurts to realize that the relationship we invested so much in is deteriorating, and we start to dislike a part of ourselves. It takes time for a breakup to heal. For many reasons, both men and women may begin to lose interest in a relationship.
For a woman, communication is one of the most crucial aspects. Simply asking her about her day and finding out the little details that might go unnoticed by others will make her feel special every day. One of the reasons a woman might feel trapped in a relationship is a lack of communication. Another reason might be that they had inflated expectations at the time, which ultimately led to their disenchantment.
“We are taught how to study, tie our shoes laces but no one ever taught us how to work on a relationship and especially romantic relationships. Falling in love is always beautiful and if that beautiful feeling remains, there is nothing more magical or fulfilling than that. There may be many valid reasons for falling out of love as a woman,” says Arouba Kabir, Mental Health counselor & Founder, Enso Wellness.
– Lack Of Communication
One of the main causes of a relationship breaking down is a lack of communication. It’s crucial to support one another emotionally, which calls for smart language.
Expecting too much of someone else or expecting them to understand you without communicating or expressing it can ruin a relationship.
– A Decline In Intimacy
Decline in physical intimacy, which might include less foreplay, less sex or not wanting sex, less post-coital affection, or other losses in terms of physical or emotional intimacy where they don’t feel secure being vulnerable emotionally or believe the partner doesn’t express themselves
– Loss Of Respect And Trust
Your companion respects you and is dependable. Respect them, do you? Are you being truthful to one another? These are some of the crucial inquiries to consider after a failed relationship.
– Bad Self-views
Feelings of failure, low self-esteem, and poor self-image can cause you to lose interest in someone. Perhaps it is a result of having someone you once trusted reject you when you were a child or a young adult. People’s self-esteem may suffer greatly when they have a breakup.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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