Ali Sky thinks a man who can rock a bare head exudes confidence too.
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Ask and you shall receive.
Maybe it started with my obsession for Max Brenner, chocolate by the Bald Man. Although it’s hard to recall if the Israeli DJ that I met at Nobu in Miami was in fact, the inspiration behind that genius empire or if he was just an investor. What I do know, is that when I was 22 years old, he saw into my soul over morning sex at the Gramercy Park Hotel a decade ago. After kindly asking him to give me a tee-shirt to remember him by, I left, and never saw or spoke to him again. To be honest, I rarely thought of him much either.
It didn’t matter if he was short and skinny or tall and chubby, it just mattered that we could see ourselves in each other.
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What still sticks with me today is that he told me that I was incredible in bed, (so was he,) but that my energy was blocked and for that reason it was extremely difficult to really connect with me emotionally. Having no idea what that even meant, I chased the answer for seven more years, knowing that it would be only through a bald man that I would be able to find out.
What makes bald men so sexy is their level of attention to detail, their quest for creative perfection and their commitment to strive for a flawless look in an authentic and raw fashion. A bald head is a sign of purity which doubles as ironic because it is usually atop a man who wishes to wash away all of his sins and insecurities.
Maybe it was Haaaaarry from Sex and the City and his fierce desire to be desired by Charlotte. After all, she was a polished brunette who strived to stay proper and ladylike even in the ugliest situations. She felt that she could be herself in front of a beautiful bald man with a chubby body covered in animalist hair. There was something so reassuring about being with a man who was so comfortable in his own skin that he could recognize his true beauty in that of a woman he viewed as perfection.
Speaking from personal experience, all I ever wanted was a Bald Jew in his 40’s who worked in a creative industry. It didn’t matter if he was short and skinny or tall and chubby, it just mattered that we could see ourselves in each other, perfectly imperfect and comfortable being uncomfortable together.
It takes a sense of unearned confidence to bare your soul and rock a clean shaven head. It takes a real man to understand a real woman.
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There was a time about three-and-a-half years ago when a bald man practically held a broken mirror up to me showcasing all of my shattered dreams, obstacles and insecurities. I almost died from being so overwhelmed with emotions that I literally had not felt in years. He saw things in me that I could not see in myself and it was the most unexplainably attractive energy that literally left me speechless. Was it fate that filled me with fear or was it the bald man who fueled a spiritual awakening far beyond any divine expectations that I believed were possible for me? My entire life was transformed for the better and touched forever. It would have too good to be true, but a bald man is sexy in ways that can literally change your let it.
Eventually, I met my match. Everyone immediately asked me if he was bald. He isn’t actually, he is balding though and I have seen photos of him with no hair and I know that he is a keeper. By far, he is the most creative man that I have ever met and he loves me more than anything in the world.
The reason bald is sexy isn’t just because a bare head is beautiful, but because of the superpowers bald men channel by being deeply approachable. Seeing into someone’s soul and seeking truth are sexy. It takes a sense of unearned confidence to bare your soul and rock a clean shaven head. It takes a real man to understand a real woman.
Source: 30dB.com – Bald Men
Looks like social media sort of agrees given “sexier” is the positive word used most to describe bald men. Then again, there are plenty of colorful counter opinions. — Howard 30db
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