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Question: The new age thing is coliving, co parenting after you divorce. It is better for the children – I get that. What happens when your former lover, your ex-wife starts dating someone else? You can’t get away from that! Was it really that easy to move on? Did I truly mean nothing to her?
Answer: While I understand the psychology advantage for the children when it comes to coliving, you are stronger person than me! I couldn’t do it! I would feel the same exact way when my ex started dating? Was it really that easy to move on? My suggestion would be to end Phase 1 of your divorce – co-living and say hello to phase 2. This way, you can focus on you and begin the healing process instead of reopening the wound every time you see them together.
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This post was previously published on www.allanapratt.com and is republished here with permission from the author.
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