When you fall in love with the right person, even if your previous days were cloudy and rainy days, after meeting him, your days will become sunny days with bright sunshine.
However, if you fall in love with the wrong person, your future life may be spent in suspicion and quarrels, and you will face each other hysterically every day. Then at this time, you need to break your wrist and remove the tumor in time.
We always don’t know whether the one we met is the right one, whether he is worthy of being with him for a lifetime, and everyone has their standards, but there are so many types of people, and your love is often not good result.
01 Satisfied with the status quo, not thinking of progress
If a man loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you, then he will definitely want to work hard to look forward to a better material life for you in the future. Because he loves you, so he does not want you to follow his hard struggle and bear hardships.
On the other hand, if he is content with the status quo, not motivated by work, or in a state where one person can feed the whole family and not be hungry, then you should reposition your relationship. He is not the one worthy of your life.
02 He listens to his parents too much and has no ideas of his own
If your man has no opinion and obeys his parents’ arrangements in everything, then your family life will interfere a lot in the future.
When you can’t stand a life without freedom, and when there is a conflict between you and his relatives, he may not stand with you. If you marry him, you will be left alone in the future.
A person who truly deserves to live the rest of your life with him must be the one who puts you first. If in his heart, you are dispensable, and his mother’s words must be listened to, then you can think about your future.
03 Controlling, short-tempered
Fall in love with a manipulative man, he will want to be in control of you all the time, and he wants all your decisions to be made according to his demands.
Even what you wear, what you eat, and even what you like, he will gradually deprive you of all freedom, until you become a doll who has no self and can only do what he says.
Second, manipulative people tend to be short-tempered, and he may even punch you in the face if you let him down in something. If you fall in love with such a man, you often won’t have any good results.
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We all hope to have a relationship that leads directly to marriage, but the reality is often not satisfactory. So we are always searching in the boundless huge crowd, looking forward to finding our right half as soon as possible.
Love this thing, right love is love, wrong love is youth, recognize the mistake should give up early, so will not sink deeper and deeper.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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