Falling in love with the woman of your dreams is one of the greatest feelings a person will ever experience.
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It is a high that no other relationship or substance can compete with. It is like watching your team rush down the field to score the game-winning touchdown in the Super Bowl. Your stomach is filled with a knotting fear as you watch the running back charge down the field, and as he crosses the goal line, your body is engulfed in a fire burning climax. (Yes, we hope you love us as much as you love football.)
We are not looking for a man who is perfect; we are looking for a man who is perfect for us.
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If there’s one thing we know to be a fact, it is that there is no one on this earth who will ever have your DNA. That means you were uniquely created with all intent and purpose to be amazing.
Let us shed some light on the heart of a woman: we are not looking for a man who is perfect, we are looking for a man who is perfect for us. So, how do you surpass the guy on the cover of Men’s Health or Ryan Gooseling from The Notebook? We have ten ways for you to become the man she never wants to let go.
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You have fun together.
It does not matter what you are doing, as long as she is with you, she knows she will always have a good time. From a simple night in watching the latest Netflix Original Series to a weeklong vacation on Maui, there is never a dull moment. She knows that whether you are with friends, family, or alone, you are always the same enjoyable person.
You bring out the best in her.
You have shown her a side of herself that she never knew existed. That side of her is brave, courageous, and absolutely beautiful. Her friends and family notice her glow every time she is around them. You make her want to work every day towards being the best version of herself.
You put in the effort.
Complacency is not a thing for you. You take time out of your busy day to remind her that she is a priority for you. Whether it is a “Good morning” text or a surprise date night, she does not go one day without knowing she is on your mind. It can be a casual date night at her favorite pub; you always know when she needs it.
You respect your differences.
You love her independence and sense of self. Your priorities may sometimes be different, and your needs may sometimes be different, and you understand that. You do not criticize or put her down for the things that make you individuals. She gets to be her, and you get to be you.
You believe in her.
You believe that she is capable of climbing the highest mountains and swimming through the deepest seas. You believe in her soul, and in her heart. Those are the two things you love most about her. You encourage her to go out and conquer the world. The best part is, she knows you will be right by her side.
Her imperfections make her perfect for you.
It is as if her body is a maze and you are the only person who knows the right course.
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You do not expect her to be one hundred all of the time. You love her for her flaws because those are what make her who she is. Your favorite time to see her is first thing in the morning with messy hair and no makeup on because you are the only person who gets to see that side of her.
You are willing to sacrifice for her dreams.
This relationship is not about one of you being more important than the other. You love her ambition so when she expresses her goals you support her in pursuing them. You are willing to take a back seat or compromise where needed for her to achieve her dreams.
Your body speaks to her soul.
You connect with her in a way that makes her come alive. Even just the touch of your hand on her leg sends sparks throughout her body. It is as if her body is a maze and you are the only person who knows the right course. The feeling of your body gives her a high, a taste so good; she never wants to live without it.
You don’t just listen to her; you hear her.
When she speaks, you listen to understand, not to respond. Her voice is important to you. You understand that when she expresses her feelings, that she has those feelings for a reason. You may sometimes feel different, she always walks away knowing she has been heard.
You have her no matter what.
At the end of the day, all that matters is her. Before friends, family, or anyone else she knows that you always have her back. Even when you do not necessarily agree with her, you still stand by her side. She can have her worst day or her best day, and you will still be there holding her hand.
When you are the ten things above for her, we can promise you one thing: she will never let you go.
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Unfortunately, the one you can’t control is the 8th one. So you can fall in love with the woman of your dreams, and have 9/10 of these fully covered, and you will end up in the “true” friend zone, meaning she absolutely wants you to be her best friend forever. But without #8, which is probably the only one you have no real control over, if it just isn’t there, it will always be a “don’t think of you that way” relationship. I’ve been around for long enough to have met at least 3 or 4 “woman of my dreams”… Read more »