Question: Coach Allana, I feel like I’m in a real dating slump. How can I give myself a kick in the seat to get back out there and date?
May I be straight love?
I don’t believe slumps are either bad or good… they are simply a part of you piping up… trying to tell you something. They don’t need to be kicked 😉 They’re telling you that there’s a reason why you are procrastinating or feeling depressed or hopeless. And that part of you that’s asking to be heard, loved and healed in a lasting way… not be kicked in the seat! They need to be scooped up in your arms and listened to… we wouldn’t kick a child if it was sad, right?