If you’re hearing about marriage, houses, kids, and how you’re soulmates on the first or second date, watch out. You’re likely in the grip of narcissistic manipulation.
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This series of videos from Narcissistic Support identifies the red flags of narcissistic behavior so you can avoid getting involved with people who will hurt you. Rushing connection is red flag #2. The first sign of narcissistic behavior is love bombing.
Future faking is basically where somebody fakes wanting a future with you. And not only that, but they fake wanting the same future that you want.
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Mine told me about his mother being killed in a car accident, on the beach, on xmas day, and it was told to me after he’d run off in a huge dramatic episode where he ran naked down the beach expecting me to chase after him. When I didn’t, he ran back and yelled at me that his mother was murdered…out of nowhere. He was in tears and then threatened to cut me into little pieces…all because I said I didn’t think his apology was sincere. He threatened to KILL ME because I said his sorry wasn’t sincere!! Let that… Read more »