Question: Is there a way to convince a woman that you are quite a catch? I feel like woman reject me without even getting to know me!
Answer: no my love there is no way to convince a woman that you are quite a catch. I don’t want you convincing anybody of anything. I want you being you! Anytime we try to prove our worth we seem like a used car salesman. Anytime we try to overcompensate for our worth we end up looking either arrogant or foolish.
Nonetheless your concern that women reject you without even getting to know you is real… And deserves more inquiry. It could simply be that you’re trying to hard and you energetically push them away instantly. It could be that you’re not as grounded and confident and at ease in your skin as you could be. It could be that you feel socially awkward and aren’t practiced in simply being yourself or communicating with beautiful women and this awkwardness is a turn off. It could be that you’re shy and that they don’t even notice you. It could be that you seek approval on an energetic level, give your power away, which is a turn off.
There are so many possibilities to what’s going on, I would love the privilege of being able to connect with you to discover what this blind spot is so that we can change it!
When you were truly being your authentic noble badass self, there is a sense of safety security approval appreciation and home on the inside in your heart, and your belly, and your balls. You don’t need a woman. You don’t even need her attention. Yet you’re open to the adventure of life and being a contribution and receiving the most amazing woman’s radiance to fuel your glory.
I’d like to discover if you’re a fit for me to help you get there, as I have with so many hundreds of men at this point in my 17 year career as a spiritual counselor. Many of us have had difficulty upbringings and there are sabotaging survival mechanisms that unknowingly push away the very thing we desire. Inner work is always required first, and then that allows for efficient affective outer work that gets lasting results… In the form of hot healthy long-term conscious intimate relationships.
You can apply for your complementary strategy session with me at www.allanapratt.com/connect. I can’t wait to see you in my inbox 🙂 In the mean time please enjoy my complementary How To Be A Noble Badass Training at www.GetHerToSayYes.com. Let’s discover what’s in the way and dissolve it revealing the true you… And never again will you need to convince anyone of your worth, it will be self evident and a gift to this planet 🙂