Paying attention to your woman’s psyche is equivalent to loving her.
A woman will never be in your face about what she needs or wants, she will drop a million hints about what is going on with her and your relationship. If you really want her to commit and love you, have your back pay attention to her.
4. She needs you to communicate. Men don’t like to talk as much as women, this is a known fact. Men are considered avoidant by nature or emotionally shut down or immature because of this. But, if you are not communicating with your woman and letting her into your heart and feelings consistently about your life, needs, thoughts, vision, fears then she will start to assume certain things which leaves the doorway open to wrong thoughts and feelings and she will inevitably be lost without your words. She will start to question everything, go into anxiety and not trust you.
FACT: A man’s lack of communication with his woman will lead her into a state of imagination about him and the relationship or how he feels about her. This will then only be discovered when a fight breaks out or worse.
A wise man stays in communication with his woman.
One of the biggest things that’s missing in marriages and relationships of today is that men do not communicate. How can you be the leader and not communicate?
I hear all the time from men that they are not communicators. That they don’t really have any emotions or feelings about something. Or (and this is a big one!) that because their woman is so high-emotion and “crazy” that he does not feel safe communicating with her. It’s just best if he says nothing, is what he has learned, so he will say.
Such a horrible mistake!
And such a childish thing to do. Blaming your woman for your lack of leadership and inability to have intimate communications with her.
A lot of talk is typically perceived by the man as though the woman does not trust him or that she is trying to trap him or read too much into something.
For a woman though, a lot of conversation means deep relating and caring.
A man needs to communicate his mind consistently because a woman needs to know what he is thinking to be able to trust, and soften into him. If he does not communicate faithfully with her, then how is she to do this?
She must know your heart and mind if she is to be your partner for life. But that is up to you gentlemen.
FACT: One of the biggest issues with women today is that they do not feel loved by their husbands, partners/boyfriends.
This may come as a surprise to many men out there, because you feel that all is well. After all she is receptive, she is not nagging you or fighting with you. You are having sex — maybe not great or even good, but it’s happening. You are providing. So it must all be groovy, right?
WRONG!
A woman can give her body to many men, but for him to gain her heart and commitment he must first learn her and then stay consistently learning her for their life together.
“But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 33 But a married man has to think about his earthly responsibilities and how to please his wife.1 Corinthians 7:33
Hopefully you have discovered something in this article that instills in you a desire to be a good man to your woman and make her to feel your love as well as feel secure in honoring you, with her heart, mind, body and soul, as her man.
Loving you from here.
As Always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
-Rene’
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