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this happened and I was so caught off
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guard by it I didn’t know what to do I
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just knew I had a problem and I needed
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to figure out how to solve the problem
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but there’s just stages of of maturity
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and Adolescence that you just kind of
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gotta let kids sit in all right I’m
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gonna get to the point don’t rush me I
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have one son I have three sons one
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daughter but this one son in particular
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I’m talking about is my son Uriah he
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said something that was so crazy I
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didn’t know how to respond and he said
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that when he grows up I’m gonna play the
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video for you just watch the video oh
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wait you know what I guess I have to get
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married why because
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I don’t want to work
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but what does that mean
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I’ll leave
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um the girl was on the working whoa you
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will not why because that’s not what my
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children do
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um
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that is that is what happens in the
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Henry family and anybody anybody with my
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last name will be working that’s what we
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do you can’t tell me what to do when I’m
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a grown-up well no I can’t you’re right
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okay
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me that he that when he grows up he
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wants a cool cool girl that and then he
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wants to marry her what yeah he wants to
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marry a cool girl
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got it Hey whenever you get married I’ma
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play this on your wedding day and I’m
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gonna say look don’t marry him because
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he’s gonna make you do all the work
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yeah hi can I have can I marry your son
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don’t do it you better run for the hills
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girl that man’s broke he’s going to do
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nothing but eat ice cream and watch
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Run for the hill
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this dude is ineligible my son out of
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his mouth in my home said that he does
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not want to work when he grows up he
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wants to marry someone who’s going to do
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the work for him he wants to marry find
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a wife to do the work for him and that’s
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just not how I’m raising my boys so I
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was very caught off guard and very
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irritated that he said this and I knew
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that I had to have a plan to change this
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but I didn’t know what to do I think
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because I spent time as a stay-at-home
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dad and I was working while they were
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sleeping they thought that you know you
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could just kick in and do nothing all
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day and they don’t really know that like
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taking care of them is something like it
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took work to to take care of them during
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the day
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um but but what I’m saying is I need a
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plan to Usher him in to manhood
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properly and my friend Jefferson Bethke
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along with John Tyson has figured out
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how to do this they have created a
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curriculum for Fathers and Sons to help
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fathers Usher their sons into manhood in
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a beautiful way and I just want to
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introduce you to this now I know this
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this is coming to an end there’s only
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like five or six days left so depending
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on how the algorithm is working you
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might miss this altogether but I just
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have to put this out there for the early
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birds the people that click the
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notifications and got me on speed dial
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to know that you need to sign up for
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this program right I want to Usher my
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sons into manhood in a way that’s going
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to give them the sense of responsibility
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it takes to be a man right some stuff
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that I didn’t really think about when I
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was a kid but I want them to know these
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things when they’re ready now I know
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that it’s going to take time to do this
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but it’s right now very important that
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we train our boys how to become men
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right and what does that look like from
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a father that is extremely important so
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what does a rite of passage look like
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for a young man in America but they get
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to drive when they’re 15 they get to
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smoke when they’re 18 they get to drink
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when they’re 21. there’s no honorable
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way to Usher kids young boys into
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manhood and I think these guys got
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something really dope right now it is
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geared more toward Christian men but I
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do think it’s very valuable to just peer
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in so just check out the website you
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ain’t got to press no button or nothing
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like that
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um but I do think it’s important that
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you check it out it’s called the Primal
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path and I gotta do better by my boys
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and I’m excited to Usher them into
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manhood I might come up with something
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eventually myself but right now I’m
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following the lead right so somebody’s
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leading the way in this area and I’m
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taking advantage of it you should do the
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same see y’all next time peace
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