It’s been YEARS since they’ve made love, yet he’s staying because of his daughter. Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert, has a fiercely loving point of view…
Question: I’ve been married for 15 years and shortly after my wife completely shut down in the bedroom. If and when we connected it was “WRONG.” It lasted for 2 to 3 minutes, and it was always the same activity, and if I wasn’t done when she was, TOO BAD. If I was lucky we might connect again in 5 or 6 months. We used to have fun in bed.
Now it’s been YEARS since we made love. I have been the catalyst to all our couples counseling sessions (we have been to 6 different counselors.) and after years of trying we are no closer than when we started. I have been trying to be understanding but this is too much. The reason I have stayed this long is we have a daughter. She is 14. I have tried to not let her be effected. My wife is a great woman, and this is why I have stayed this long. There are other issues but these are not as big as this one, and I know that if this was fixable the others will fall in line. I have given our relationship until my daughter goes to college. I deserve a happy relationship.
Answer: I am sorry. I am so so sorry.
Sexual energy, life force energy, the same energy that births a star and spins the planet, fuels and ignites our bodies through sexual intimacy… and you haven’t had this bliss for YEARS.
My video is compassionate and yet straight my friend. I know, like I KNOW you love your daughter, and yet I ask you to dive deeper and ask if your choice is truly in HER best interest given you’re teaching her what a man who settles looks like. You’re imprinting her being with a relationship that’s unsatisfactory. Perhaps a good intension has morphed into an excuse?
I boldly invite you to connect with me. I choose to honor your willingness to ask me a question with the gift of a complementary strategy session, for which I normally charge, for I am confident in the life transforming insights and healing energy my session will bring you. Email my [email protected] Subj: GMP sent me- Haven’t had sex in YEARS. Let’s connect and see if you are a fit for my coaching program to change all this in a lasting way.
Love, none of us are meant to do this on our own. I have a coach. Strike that. I have SEVERAL coaches. Anyone who coaches who isn’t being coached ought to be suspect. We all require support to live the high level lives of consciousness we’re committed to. On your own, you haven’t created a solution. That doesn’t mean you’re weak or broken, it means you require mentorship just like anyone up to something worth doing on this planet. I am here and curious to see if I am the best partner for you to change this… for you, for your daughter, for your wife, for your Legacy. Don’t give up 5 minutes before the miracle.
While waiting for your appointment, download my complementary report www.GetHerToSayYes.com which will show you how to speak up for your truth in a way women can hear, how to communicate effectively in a way that elicits respect, how to honor your needs, how to be a King and be adored by your Queen. Then let’s get to work. A marriage is on the line, your heart and soul and sacred erotic expression are on the line, and teaching your daughter what a noble badass really is… this is on the line.
I believe in you. So inspired that you reached out.
Sending so much love, Allana xoxo