It’s only been 4 months and she’s relentless: I want to meet your parents! Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt thinks…
Question: I’ve been dating my girl for about 4 months and things are going well. She’s met my friends, but she’s pushing to meet my parents. I don’t know if I’m ready for that. How do I know if I’m ready for her to meet the parents?
Answer: You must be a pretty good catch if she wants to get ‘in’ with your folks so soon! Yet I hear you that you’re not ready and I’d honor that.
So often we can get talked into things that don’t resonate with our deepest truths, just because we fear rejection, we don’t want to offend someone, or we question what’s true for us.
If you’re not ready, then you’re not ready and you can focus more on getting to know her AND start asking yourself when WOULD you be ready?
What do you require to feel solid about introducing her? Are there conversations you haven’t had yet that you could begin? Are your values aligned? Does she makes your life better? What would make you feel happy, proud, calm and open about introducing her? Focus on THAT.
To have these types of conversations, to trust that you know what you know, to not compromise yourself to please a woman, to truly be a noble badass and rock your life, your relationships and your calling… my complementary report and video series will help. www.GetHerToSayYes.com
And lastly, this is a really good problem to have… a woman who likes you so much she wants to get ‘in’ with your folks… high level problems indeed. Life is good. Great love, Allana xoxo