You’re a man. Or maybe you’re a woman. Or you’re non-binary.
It doesn’t matter. You’re human. You do this thing – we all do – but nobody talks about it. And it’s the #1 way we screw up our relationships.
Why doesn’t anyone talk about it?
Well, it would likely be SEEN as bad news. We, humans, prefer good news – Hollywood endings, love, wealth, potential.
But we don’t realize that to get to the good stuff, we need to clear out the bad underneath.
We can’t just toss a bunch of good on top of bad and expect all to be well. Sure, it could work for a while but eventually, the bottom falls out.
Ok, so what is this thing we do to mess up our relationships?
Simply put, it is unconscious self-betrayal. And it dishonors you and your partner.
We do it when we’re run by our fear of security. We do it when we fear losing our relationship.
When we’re afraid to speak our truth. When we don’t communicate.
It’s primal. It’s in our DNA. But it doesn’t have to be.
CHECK OUT my recent appearance below on the “Believe Be Real Be Bold” Podcast with Dave Glaser to learn more.
Originally Published on stuartmotola.com