In Chinese mythology, there’s a concept of the “red thread of fate”.
It is commonly thought of as an invisible red cord around the finger of those that are destined to meet one another in a certain situation as they are “their true love”.
I don’t even need to say that we people always look for love and validation. For some people, it is just an instinct, but to others it is something that belongs to higher dimensions.
Loving and being loved is a miracle. Finding the right person that shares your visions, beliefs and your perception of the world is not an every-day-event for sure.
Someone looks for this special person for years. Others don’t care that much. Although, this waiting can cause frustration.
“It’s been years I’m waiting for someone but nothing happens.”
If you ever thought that, let me tell you one thing in simple words:
Frustration is not “love”. If you are frustrated, you attract frustration. Love unconditionally, and yourself first, and you will attract true love.
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A few words on self-love.
Most people concentrate their energy on how their partner should be and look. But the only thing you can really do is giving that attention to yourself.
“I’m so cool. So amazing, and so magical! I have so many talents. My heart is full of love.”
This kind of vibes attracts love! You become love and you don’t even need to look for it outside.
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We are all connected by an invisible field (trying to translate quantum physics into simple words). The Chinese concept of the red thread tells that you are already connected to your person. Whenever you’re ready, this thread brings you closer to the right person.
So you don’t have to worry at all! Enjoy every moment. Discover yourself. Give love to yourself and the world. Just be yourself. Everything happens at the right time.
This post was previously published on Medium.
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