In the modern dating world, relationships can come in many forms, including the increasingly popular Situationship. The Situationship is a romantic relationship that lacks clarity, commitment, or definition. It can be challenging to navigate and can leave one or both parties feeling confused and uncertain about where they stand.
Famous examples of situationships can be found in popular culture. In the infamous show “Friends”, Ross and Rachel’s relationship was a classic example of a situationship. They were constantly on-and-off, unsure of where they stood with each other and had no clear commitment to one another. Additionally, in the TV show “New Girl,” the characters Nick and Jess also engage in a situationship. They have romantic feelings for each other but are unsure how to define their relationship.
But no one wants to be in a situationship. Thus, here are some ways to avoid situationships to ensure emotional well-being and long-term happiness. Here are some pieces of advice to help avoid situationships
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Identifying Your Deal-Breakers:
Knowing what you want and what you will not tolerate in a relationship is essential to avoid getting into a situationship. If you value communication, make it clear that you expect open and honest communication from your partner. If you have a deal-breaker, such as cheating, make it clear that it is a non-negotiable aspect of your relationship. Honestly, I thought cheating was a deal breaker in most relationships, but surprisingly, this is not always the case in most situationships.
Personally, I value loyalty and honesty, and I make it clear to potential partners that those are essential aspects of any relationship I have. If someone shows that they are not capable of those traits, I know that a situationship is not an option for me.
Practising Healthy Detachment
It’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of a new relationship and start fantasising about a future with someone. However, take things slow and let your partner take the lead in defining the relationship.
Practising healthy detachment and focusing on other aspects of your life can help prevent situationships. I often remind myself to focus on my own goals and passions and not let a relationship consume my thoughts and emotions. By practising healthy detachment, I am better able to let my partner take the lead in defining the relationship and avoid situationships.
Dates Are Just a Bonus to Life
While dates can be enjoyable, they should not be the defining aspect of your life. Focusing on other areas of your life and keeping in mind that a date is just one aspect of it can help prevent situationships. If a date does not work out, move on and not let it affect your emotional well-being.
I had to make sure to have hobbies and passions outside of dating and remind myself that a relationship is just one aspect of my life. This helps me stay grounded and not get too emotionally invested in a date that may not work out.
Understanding What You Won’t Settle for in a Relationship
Knowing what you want from a relationship is important as not settling for less. If they cannot meet your needs, it’s better to move on than to stay in a situationship that is unfulfilling situation. It’s easier said than done, but I know I won’t settle for someone who is not emotionally available or cannot communicate effectively. If they cannot meet those needs, I know that a situationship is not an option for me.
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In conclusion, situationships can be challenging to navigate and leave both parties uncertain about where they stand. However, by following the above advice, you can avoid getting into situationships and maintain emotional stability in your dating life.
Being clear about your boundaries and deal-breakers, practising healthy detachment, and focusing on other aspects of your life can help prevent situationships. Additionally, understanding what you won’t settle for and being willing to move on if someone cannot meet your needs is crucial in avoiding situationships.
Find a fulfilling and healthy relationship but don’t let your emotional well-being depend on it. By prioritising your own needs and goals, you can avoid situationships and find a relationship that is right for you.
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