When a person is bored with you, you can tell by his expression. There are signs that he is indifferent to what you say. In fact, to see if a man dislikes you, you don’t need too many words, the details will tell you everything.
When you find a man with these three actions towards you, you may have to worry about your relationship. At the very least, talk to him about it! If you are seeing signs of indifference, communication is the best option.
01 When you talk to him, he doesn’t look up at you
There is probably a problem when you speak to a man, and — no matter what you say — important or unimportant, he has the same attitude: indifference.
If he doesn’t look up at you, if he chats or plays games on his mobile phone; if he doesn’t take you seriously, or if he always says he can hear what you say but rarely seems to be paying attention — red flag alert.
In fact, if you are finding this happens a lot, you it will be difficult to turn it around to where he is fully communicating with you, because he has closed the door to speaking with you, shielding you from the outside world.
If a man chooses to ignore you, it often means that he has already ignored you in his heart, he doesn’t care about you, and he doesn’t take it seriously.
Be aware that if you try to discuss how much you care about him, he may still ignore you, because, in his opinion, your care is not precious at all.
02 When you encounter something, he lets you handle it yourself
Everyone has bad days. Maybe you’re being bullied, or working too hard. Or maybe you’re simply anxious.
These are the moments when you want a partner who can be present with you. You hope that he can appear by your side, support you, and let you rely on him.
If this is a person who refuses to be there with you when things are problematic — it may be he is the problem. Nobody wants to always have to face problems themselves.
If when you are in trouble, you can’t count on him, be mentally prepared to end this relationship.
A man like this really doesn’t have you in their hearts, so they don’t care if you are anxious, wronged, or afraid.
03 You dress yourself up, but he turns his nose up at you
When you mention what you want to buy yourself, he will say that wearing anything on you is a waste of money.
In fact, such a man no longer has you in his eyes, or in his eyes, to him, you are no longer the outstanding self you used to be.
In a relationship, if the other party scoffs when they see you, it will be difficult for you to experience happiness when you are with each other.
When there is such a situation, ring the alarm for yourself, not because of him, but to make yourself live more confidently!
This post was previously published on medium.com.
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