Question: Coach Allana, what can I do to get my girl to stop ignoring me? She’s always watching her TV shows or reading a book or she goes into her bedroom and stays there all night. I can text her and she reads it but then ignores me for hours, and if I say something about it, she says her phone opened her messages. We fight all the time about this crap. I’m so ready to run. I’m 50 and she’s 36 with four kids. Two of them live with us and I just don’t know what to do.
Answer: First off, I am so sorry.
This really sounds like you two are at a standoff and I really acknowledge you for reaching out.