Question: My girlfriend keeps hinting she wants to move in with me and I’m not having it. I love my girl but not ready to see her 24/7. I don’t want to end the relationship but feel like telling her no will not end well. Any idea? I’m at a loss.
Answer: To me, moving in together is a big deal. Let’s remember in a healthy relationship NO ONE sees each other 24/7… that’s more codependence. Inter-dependence is when two independent people still have their own thriving lives AND being together more is a measurable contribution to both.