I mean I’ve experienced a lot in life and if there’s anything I’ve learned is that there is a great balance to it.
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I have somehow been plagued this week with article upon article upon article about how stupid, immature and downright dickish men can be. Some, I laughed at their stupidity, others I stared on in disbelief, and the rest I was just completely angry at. That people from my gender could behave in such a way with absolutely no respect for women and in some cases, utter contempt for them.
Lots of articles.
It was mind boggling to say the least at first. And that lead me on to thinking a bit further. Where were the articles of women being ridiculous? No respect and utter contempt for men. I couldn’t find any.
Well, I’m lying actually.
I found some.
But only because her man had done something so ridiculous it let loose the fires of hell from her.
There are far too many good men out there to be demonising them in such a fashion.
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But this can’t be the only bad things women get up to. I mean I’ve experienced a lot in life and if there’s anything I’ve learned is that there is a great balance to it. The crazy text messages, the lying, the cheating, and a hell of a lot more some men have been unfortunate enough to experience from women.
Take me for example. From women, I’ve been lied to, cheated on, led on a wild goose chase, nearly led into entrapment and a ton, literally a ton of other things. Why aren’t men speaking up about this? Why aren’t we taking to the webwaves and spewing forth our feelings like a Tsunami. Because if we did – that’s what it would be like. The grand Tsunami of male emotion breaking free. That’s what we could call it.
But I’m old enough and wise enough to know that there are just as many good women as there are unhealthy women. More good women actually. And I feel this is what we should be doing with men in society. There are far too many good men out there to be demonising them in such a fashion.
It’s just a suggestion. I’m all for positive change. And this man bashing needs to change.
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But we seem to be demonising them. Every man bashing article I read I seem to feel worse about myself than I did previously. Because this is how more and more women will feel about me. Without getting to know me she will neatly place me into her little man box and this will be her entire opinion about me before I allow her anything deeper. Those articles make me feel bad. Imagine what it’s doing to women?
What do I suggest?
Healthy change was never created by waging war. To inspire and empower we educate and give others the tools to create a better life for themselves.
Just like when we see the Charity adverts on TV for people that have nothing in Africa.
“This is a seed. You use it for planting crops so that your family can eat for years to come”
Instead of having articles like, “Check out what this douchebag guy did” how about changing the article to “How not to talk to women when you’re a man” – and write it in such a way that it educates rather than demonises.
It’s just a suggestion. I’m all for positive change. And this man bashing needs to change.
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“Healthy change was never created by waging war.” – Except for the Revolutionary War, the Civil War, and the allied war against Hitler and the axis powers.
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